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Adolescence Topic:Abstinence. Chapter 21, Lesson 2 6 th Grade Presenters: Desiree Moore Kristin Spahlinger Vamadria Johnson Elisabeth Wasilewski. Adolescence & Abstinence. Decision-Making Abstinence Refusal Skills Consequences of Sexual Activity. Part I Decision-Making. Media
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Adolescence Topic:Abstinence Chapter 21, Lesson 2 6th Grade Presenters: Desiree Moore Kristin Spahlinger Vamadria Johnson Elisabeth Wasilewski
Adolescence & Abstinence Decision-Making Abstinence Refusal Skills Consequences of Sexual Activity
Media Television Music Friends Parents Siblings Extended family Religious organizations Cultural traditions Associations School organizations (sports, clubs) Influences
Making Responsible Decisions Adolescence is a time for personal development Adolescents will be exposed to new things and will face greater challenges in everyday life Important to keep influences in mind when making a decision
Six Steps of Decision-Making Process • State the situation • List the options • Weigh the possible outcomes
Six Steps of Decision-Making Process • Consider your values • Make a decision and act • Evaluate the decision
Making Sexual Decisions • Physical and emotional changes during adolescence can lead to confusion and concern • Important to know the difference between feelings of sexual attraction and love Remember: You DO NOT have to act on sexual impulses!
Making Sexual Decisions • Many teens act on sexual impulses out of curiosity, pressure from others, or a desire to be an adult • Decision to engage in sexual activity is the biggest and most important decision a teen can make due to life-long implications
Making Sexual Decisions • It is easier to make good judgments when you have a clear mind and are not feeling pressured Remember: It is much easier to make decisions about your limits BEFORE you get involved in sexual activity “You have to stand for what you believe in. And sometimes you have to stand alone.” ~ Queen Latifah
Abstinence Definition of abstinence Five steps to help you stay abstinent
Definition of Abstinence The conscious decision to avoid harmful behaviors, including sexual activity before marriage and the use of tobacco, alcohol, and other drugs.
How can I stay abstinent? 1. Establish your own priorities. • Priorities are those things that are first in importance.
How can I stay abstinent? 2. Set limits on how you are willing to express affection.
How can I stay abstinent? 3. Share your feelings with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
How can I stay abstinent? 4. Discuss your feelings with a trusted adult.
How can I stay abstinent? 5.Steer clear of high pressure situations. 6. If you are currently sexually active, re-evaluate your decision.
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Refusal Skills • Clear communication with partner • Verbal and non-verbal actions send the same message • Clear body language
Refusal Skills • Self-control • A person’s ability to use responsibility to override emotions • No conflicting actions • Assertiveness
Negative Consequences of Sexual Activity • Unplanned pregnancy • Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) • Loss of self-respect • Negative Effects on social relationships
Unplanned Pregnancy • Complicates adolescent life: • 86% of teen pregnancies are unplanned • Giving birth at a young age increases health risks for both the mother and child • Limits the teens’ future Teens are not ready for Parenthood!
Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) • Spread from person to person through sexual contact • STDs require medical treatment • Examples: • A.I.D.S. • Herpes • Syphilis
Mental and Social Affects • Loss of self-respect • Diminished self-image • Tension between boyfriend/girlfriend relationships • Sexual activities may lead to unshared feelings, emotional attachment and other dilemmas
When in doubt… Wait until marriage to experiment with sex! Practice abstinence!