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Finding Your Voice. Meshing THEIR 21 st Century Style with YOUR 20 th Century Experience. Author: Topic vbexpert: AVCA Presentation by Beth Launiere at Spring Conference * Member is Man… Beth really bombed this presentation!!! way off line . What’s the new perspective?.
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Finding Your Voice Meshing THEIR 21st Century Style with YOUR 20th Century Experience
Author: Topic vbexpert: AVCA Presentation by Beth Launiere at Spring Conference * Member is Man… Beth really bombed this presentation!!! way off line
What’s the new perspective? • What did you know about your opponent before you played? • What do our players know about their opponent before they play?
Their Chaotic World • News, message boards, blogs, social networking, wars, swine flu, economic crisis, terrorisms……. • High information • Sensationalized • Flood of Negative
Our Stable Program • Trusting and Safe Environment • In It Together • Help them to find a focus and rudder • Focus on what they can control • Goal Setting, Expectations, Intrinsic Value • “What is DELAYED is not DENIED” • delayed gratification • Order and Discipline - Cauldron
Their Practice World • Game Like Training • Less Control • Choices (they are now making decisions) • Growth • Leadership
Hovering Parents • 9 out of 10 College Freshman like hovering parents! • Now what do we do? • Replace, wean and facilitate GROWTH • Safe environment allows this PROCESS • Allows the goal of PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY • Relationships with Freshman and Seniors • Prepared citizens to go out into the community
From Weaning to Winning • Winning is our Job • Allow this process to happen • Let go of control - treat them like adults! • Allow input and challenge • Champions are created through this process!
Finding Your Voice Be Authentic • Be Who You Are • Need to know self • You can’t fake it if you are going to allow challenge • Be Adaptive to Change • Coaching is an ART not a SCIENCE • Let Them See You • Who do you trust? Someone you don’t know or someone you do know?