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Helping Kids Be naughty no more

Helping Kids Be naughty no more. Jodi Mullen, Phd Integrative Counseling Services. Introductions. The naughty No More Story. Identifying feelings & Communicating Understanding. Verbally Non-verbally facial expressions body language Para-verbally.

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Helping Kids Be naughty no more

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  1. Helping Kids Be naughty no more Jodi Mullen, Phd Integrative Counseling Services

  2. Introductions

  3. The naughty No More Story

  4. Identifying feelings& Communicating Understanding • Verbally • Non-verbally • facial expressions • body language • Para-verbally Even when freshly washed and relieved of all obvious confections, children tend to be sticky.  Fran Lebowitz

  5. What’s the Feeling?

  6. When they can talk it out they don’t have to act out • Use feeling words • Use interjections • Use developmentally appropriate language • Use culturally-centric language • Exaggerate your tone • Exaggerate your non-verbal language • Match non-verbal & verbal language Play is the Way

  7. The Positives Detective • Changing your lens: • Manipulative > • Hyper> • Stubborn> • Childish> • Whiny> • Disrespectful> • What are some positives in yourself as a parent/teacher/caregiver? • What are some positives in this child?

  8. I’m the boss of Me! • Now try this, put an X next to the ways that you can be the boss of you even when anger is trying to be the boss. • In order to feel better I can… • take a breath • give myself a time out • go for a walk (My mom says you have to ask a grown up first) • PLAY • draw • pretend • talk to someone • You add some… • Below put an X next to all this times • when you have let anger be the boss. • I get angry with myself when I… • feel tired • say things that are mean • hurt other people • make a mistake • don’t do well in school • when I lose • say things that I do not mean • You add some more…

  9. Stability & Consistency Meals Days Expectations Consequences Of your word Emotion Responsibilities Smells Time Sound Sights Responses Rituals Traditions Celebrations Ways of getting recognition How do you create it in your home or classroom?

  10. www.integrativecounseling.us www.jodiannmullen.com http://www.blogtalkradio.com/freakishlywellbehavedkids Twitter: @DrJodiMullen Linked in: Jodi Mullen Instagram: drjodimully naughty_no_more Facebook: NaughtyNoMore How to find me…

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