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Conflict. Com 229. Why Org Conflicts Occur. Incompatible Goals Scarce Rewards (power, status, resources, etc.) Interference or Opposition Disagreement or Controversy Incongruency in the Transaction Incompatible Activities. Nonrealistic vs Realistic Conflicts. Nonrealistic
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Why Org Conflicts Occur • Incompatible Goals • Scarce Rewards (power, status, resources, etc.) • Interference or Opposition • Disagreement or Controversy • Incongruency in the Transaction • Incompatible Activities
Nonrealistic vs Realistic Conflicts • Nonrealistic • The need to release tensions or aggressive impulses • Realistic • 9 antecedents to conflict • Differentiation between parties • Com barriers • Conflict over prestige, power, resources • Ambiguous jurisdiction • Dependence on one another • Association and interrelatedness of the parties • Need for consensus • Rules regulating behavior • Unresolved prior conflicts
Dysfunctional Conflict • Too much energy / Too many resources demanded • Employee Turnover • Refusal to Cooperate • Absenteeism • Distrust • Polarization • Unhealthy competition • Original issue lost (?)
Functional Conflict • Improves DM processes • Can “clear the air” • Territory definition
Competitive Zero Sum Win/Lose Doesn’t promote excellence – trying to do well and trying to beat others are 2 difft things. Behavioral Characteristics: High in assertiveness Low on cooperative. Power & Dominance Outcomes favor the individual / his grp Force into submission “You” language / Sarcasm / Invasion of Space Styles/Strategies of Conflict Mgmt
Compromise Expedient “Split the Difference” Both parties must be able to yield Not appropriate when the stakes are high for one party Behavioral characteristics Democratic methods “Let’s make a deal” Styles/Strategies of Conflict Mgmt
Accommodating Generosity Self-sacrifice Yielding to the other person’s point of view Good skill to have Might have raised the issue at the wrong time/place Behavioral Characteristics: Nonassertive use of lang Extensive use of qualifiers Relationship = more important than the issue. Styles/Strategies of Conflict Mgmt
Avoiding I’m not OK / You’re not OK Keep routines in place Allow planning/ delegation Causes: Perceptual distortion Insensitivity Indecision Construction of elaborate defense mechanisms Behavioral Characteristics Denial of the problem. Leave job, move, chg friendships, or withdraw Topic avoidance Joking Underresponsive-ness Styles/Strategies of Conflict Mgmt
Collaboration Win/Win Maximum concern for self and other goals Confronting issues head-on Sometimes not an option Behavioral Characteristics Everyone takes a constructive role Depersonalized Comm skills Listening Positive nonverbals Styles/Strategies of Conflict Mgmt
The Four Frames • Structural • Human Resources • Political • Symbolic
Are You Sure You Want To Engage In Conflict? • How invested in the relationship are you? • How important is the issue to you? • Do you have the energy for conflict? • Are you aware of the potential consequences? • Are you ready for the consequences? • What are the consequences of NOT engaging in the conflict?