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12-Steps (or less!) to Forgiveness Matthew 26:36 - 46. Forgiveness is a process I chose to begin to stop punishing someone (including myself) for something they have done or said that has hurt me or someone else that I care about.
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Forgiveness is a process I chose to begin to stop punishing someone (including myself) for something they have done or said that has hurt me or someone else that I care about.
To forgive myself, I must take God at His word rather than trust my feelings. Our feelings are the fruit of what our minds are believing. • 2 Samuel 12:13 • Psalms 51:4 • Psalms 51:1-2
Forgiveness is an act of obedience to God, first. I forgive myself because God has forgiven me. I receive the gift of forgiveness by believing what God says He has done in Christ to offer it to me. • 1 Peter 2:24 • Colossians 2:13-14
We must accept, admit, and recognize the injuries inflicted upon ourselves and others by our sins. • David Stoop, Forgiving Our Parents, Forgiving Ourselves.
We must be honest with ourselves if we are going to face ourselves, squarely. • Feel bad? Yes. Grief has that characteristic. • The old self must be crucified with Christ: • Galatians 2:20 • Romans 8:12-14
We must take personal responsibility for the sins we have committed.
Take responsibility – continued: • Let the past be the past. Philippians 3:13-14 • Stop the personal condemnation. 2 Cor 5:17 • Replace the messages of condemnation with what God believes about us. • 51:6, 7, 8, 10, 12 • 2 Corinthians 5:17 • Ps 51:13
Limit the consequences of my past actions on everyone even if it means that I must sacrifice in the process. • 2 Corinthians 5:14-15
Respond to the current consequences of our past actions by staying in the will of God rather than falling back into the old self.