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Body Language. Body Language. and our deep nature. Amy Cuddy argues that by faking it you can become it. body language shapes who you are. power posing. Amy Cuddy. 21:00. Leaders have an air of confidence -- a presence. Leaders have an air of confidence -- a presence.
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Body Language and our deep nature
body language shapes who you are power posing Amy Cuddy 21:00
Leaders have an air of confidence -- a presence dress a little better
Leaders have an air of confidence -- a presence dress a little better make stronger eye contact
Leaders have an air of confidence -- a presence dress a little better make stronger eye contact have a firm handshake
Leaders have an air of confidence -- a presence dress a little better make stronger eye contact have a firm handshake speak concisely
Leaders have an air of confidence -- a presence dress a little better make stronger eye contact have a firm handshake speak concisely remain calm
Leaders have an air of confidence -- a presence dress a little better make stronger eye contact have a firm handshake speak concisely remain calm use open gestures
Leaders have an air of confidence -- a presence dress a little better make stronger eye contact have a firm handshake speak concisely remain calm use open gestures voice from their diaphragm
Talk, walk and look like a leader fake it until you make it
Body Language 1. while standing and waiting
Body Language 1. while standing and waiting 2. presentation posture
Body Language 1. while standing and waiting 2. presentation posture 3. gestures while speaking
Body Language 1. while standing and waiting 2. presentation posture 3. gestures while speaking 4. eye contact
Body Language 1. while standing and waiting 2. presentation posture 3. gestures while speaking 4. eye contact most important
1. while standing and waiting clasp your hands in front of you or hold them behind your back
1. while standing and waiting hands on hips shows you are prepared to dominate
1. while standing and waiting holding hands behind your back (exposing your self)shows you are confident
1. while standing and waiting we fold our arms in front of ourselves when we feel threatened or vulnerable
while standing and waiting don’t lose credibility
2. presentation posture stand with authority, don’t rock about or move fast
unless at a podium standing still makes you appear rigid, boring and disengaged
unless at a podium standing still makes you appear rigid, boring and disengaged work your audience
3. gestures while speaking hands that hang below your waist lack energy and confidence
3. gestures while speaking Opening palms is a sign of openness and honesty
3. gestures while speaking Opening palms is a sign of openness and honesty truthfulness and trust
three gestures 2:00
gestures 1:00
watch the expressive hand gestures of Ernesto Sirolli
watch the expressive hand gestures of Ernesto Sirolli notice his conversational style, how he pauses and punches words
Ernesto Sirolli punches pauses watch his gestures 6:30
gestures, thinking and language are connected watch 2 minutes without sound
watch his gestures 2:30
4. eye contact what does it tell other people?
4. eye contact what does it tell other people? you are confident
4. eye contact what does it tell other people? you are confident you are truthful
4. eye contact what does it tell other people? you are confident you are truthful you believe in what you are saying
4. eye contact what does it tell other people? you are confident you are truthful you believe in what you are saying you feel comfortable
4. eye contact what does it tell other people? you are confident you are truthful you believe in what you are saying you feel comfortable you respect them