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COMMUNICATION STRATEGIES. Learning Objectives. Identify common communication problems that may be holding you back Learn techniques to persuade and influence others Develop skills in asking questions that give you information you need Learn what your non-verbal messages are telling others
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Learning Objectives • Identify common communication problems that may be holding you back • Learn techniques to persuade and influence others • Develop skills in asking questions that give you information you need • Learn what your non-verbal messages are telling others • Enhance your ability to handle difficult situations
Group Exercise • What is a good communicator? • Quotes
Perception • Experience, education, and culture all affect our perception.
Group Exercise • What is the purpose of knowing your (or other people’s) personality?
They are bottom line driven, and believe things can be perfect
On the other hand… Procedure people
Procedure people love cheat sheets and lists; they are note takers
Options and procedure personalitiesgravitate to particular occupations
Different types of people perceive the world in different ways
You should be able to identify and communicate effectively with people that are different.
PersonalExercise: Audience Action Matrix • Think of something you want someone to do, think, feel or buy. Write a brief script of that request to two different audiences. • Draft- “OPTIONS” Audience: • Draft- “PROCEDURE” Audience: • Draft- “MIXED” Audience:
Use the STARR format to make a big impact in a short period of time
STARR: Situation, Task, Action, Results, and Recommendations
STARR: Situation, Task, Action, Results, and Recommendations • This organizational strategy keeps you from leaving out important information. • Some speakers neglect to tell an audience what they need to know. • Others forget to tell the audience what they want to know. • Memorize it and use it for instant organization, especially if someone puts you on the spot for a response.
STARR: Situation, Task, Action, Results, and Recommendations • Turn to page 19 in Manual
The Appearance of Listening • Turn to page 22 in Manual
Good body positioning increases our ability to listen and comprehend
Blending (mirroring) body language can create rapport and trust
Paraphrasing is an active listening response that increases understanding of the content of the message
Paraphrasing • To avoid defensiveness on the part of the speaker, it is important to stay as close as possible to the ideas expressed. • It is also important to put the message into your own words to avoid sounding like you are mindlessly parroting back his/her statements.
Paraphrasing: sample opening statements • It sounds like what you’re saying is… • Let me see if I understand you, what I’m hearing is… • So what I hear you saying is…
Paraphrasing • The exception is a very short paraphrase which simply provides a transition into further detail/clarification: • Statement: "I hate Mondays." Transitional paraphrase: "You hate Mondays?"
Active Listening/Questioning • Active listening questions are non-leading and non-judgmental • At best, they are open-ended, suggesting areas for exploration without anticipating specific content of the speaker’s response.
Active listening questions fall into 5 experiential categories
Active Listening • Active Listening: Mind Tools • Active Listening: Taft College
Active Listening • Turn to page 27 in Manual
Best Practices Body language while speaking
Assertive Communication • How is being assertive different from being aggressive? • What causes people to avoid being assertive? • Do you have trouble saying no, even when you really should? • Do you feel like people walk all over you? • Do you have trouble keeping your temper under control?