The Unheard World of Nonverbal Communication

1. The Unheard World of Nonverbal Communication by Christine Horton

2. Introduction • Since the beginning of time as we know it, humans have been using words as our main source of communication when interacting with each other. • Now in modern times we have come to learn that it is not just words we communicate with. In fact, studies show that nonverbal communication has a big impact on our lives. This is because it covers all aspects in the world of communication, such as the way we dress, walk, facial expression, body language, and eye contact. How we view each other culturally and as a society. Exploring this may essential in understanding the saying “It’s not what you said, its how you said it.”

3. Facial Expression • Everyday when we interact with each other our emotions are expressed by not only words but through facial expression. • This is key to those who use sign language to communicate with others. • Facial expression of our emotions are involuntary and happens almost immediately when emotion occurs. • Someone may say that they are angry, sad, happy, or not interested in what your saying but the expressions on their face may tell you different.

4. Eye Contact • Eye contact occurs when two people are looking at each other at the same time. • In some cultures such as Muslims eye contact is only allowed for second or two. Except if looking at their spouse or family member. It is only allowed under the general rule “No desire, clean eye contact.” otherwise it is considered “adultery of the eyes.” in East Asia and Nigeria it is respectful not to look the dominant person in the eye. • In Western culture is taught that to look someone in the eye means you are trustworthy, and respectful.

5. Body Language • Body language is very important when you are talking with someone because it tells the other person a lot about your emotions or what you’re thinking. • When someone crosses their arms when you are talking to them may mean that they don’t agree with you, doubt or suspect you and not want to talk with anymore. It can also mean arrogance or defensiveness. • When he’s talking it could mean that he is hiding something, lying, anxious or nervous. He could be protecting himself from verbal attack or simply just be cold.

6. Conclusion • The world of nonverbal communication is so vast that everyone has their own interpretations of what it is and how we use it to communicate with each other. • Being able to read facial expression, eye contact and body language are very important when interacting with others because it helps to understand each other similarities and differences more culturally and as a society.