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NORFOLK ADVOCATES FOR CHILDREN. Patricia A. Snell, MA and Amanda S. Wolfe, MPH Education Consultants Norfolk Advocates for Children Norfolk District Attorney’s Office. BULLYING AND POWER. REPEATED INCIDENTS. MAKES SOMEONE SAD OR AFRAID. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM.
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NORFOLK ADVOCATES FOR CHILDREN Patricia A. Snell, MA and Amanda S. Wolfe, MPH Education ConsultantsNorfolk Advocates for Children Norfolk District Attorney’s Office
BULLYING AND POWER REPEATED INCIDENTS MAKES SOMEONE SAD OR AFRAID WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
RELATIONAL AGGRESSION RUMORS WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
CYBER-BULLYING text, email, blogs, Facebook WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
THE INTERNET EVERYTHING IS PUBLIC CAN’T CONTROL WHO SAVES OR FORWARDS YOUR PHOTOS, VIDEO, TEXTS, EMAILS OR POSTS APPS. | EASY ACCESS WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
THINK BEFORE YOU POST PRIVACY SETTINGS PHOTOS/VIDEOS/INFO. WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
SEXTING… WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL? Sending or forwarding inappropriate photos or videos WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
ISSUES WITH SEXTING CONSEQUENCES No control over where the photo(s) or videos go Could lead to online harassment, cyberbullying, or teen dating violence Social humiliation and damage to your reputation School consequencessuspension / expulsion LEGAL CONSEQUENCES WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
ARE STUDENTS GETTING INTO TROUBLE? YES! WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
CURRENT CONVICTIONS Production, promotion, possession, and dissemination of child pornography Disorderly conduct Illegal use of a minor in nudity-orientatedmaterial Open and gross lewdness Sexual abuse of children LEGAL CONSEQUENCES WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
REAL LIFE EXAMPLES Who is charged? A.H. v. State, Florida Child pornography conviction Philip Alpert, Florida Felony chargessending child pornography State v. Canal, Iowa Obscenity conviction LEGAL CONSEQUENCES WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
DEALING WITH SEXTING DON’T RESPOND REPORT ABUSE TALK TO SOMEONE WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
REMEMBER… RESPECT YOURSELF AND OTHERS WILL RESPECT YOU! WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
RESPECT YOURSELF & OTHERS WILL RESPECT YOU http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llUWnPQyVwQ WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
SEXTING & TEEN DATING VIOLENCE • Sexting falls into the new category of “digital abuse” and can be used to control someone in a relationship • 1/5 high school girls and 1/13 high school boys experience teen dating violence before graduating from high school WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
SEXTING & TEEN DATING VIOLENCE • One person may force or threaten a person with consequences if they do not send explicit photos • If a relationship ends, one person may spread the existing photos to other people to get back at the person who ended the relationship, or to blackmail the person who is trying to end the relationship WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
REAL LIFE POSTS WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
THINK BEFORE YOU FORWARD A PHOTO OR VIDEO When you receive a text, you do not know the context of what was going on when that picture was taken: -could the person have been pressured or forced to send the pic? -could the person have been intoxicated when they took this picture? -could the person in the pic not even have known that a photo was being taken? WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
RESPONDING TO INAPPROPRIATE TEXTS OR REQUESTS FOR PHOTOS WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
TRY A NON-SEXT RESPONSE SOMETHING FUNNY… WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
TRY A NON-SEXT RESPONSE SOMETHING FUNNY… WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
TRY A SERIOUS RESPONSE • Stress your discomfort: “I’m way too uncomfortable doing that.” • Emphasize feelings: “If you really cared for me, you wouldn’t ask me to do that.” • Change the subject: “Um let’s do something else, ok?” • Call them out: “Nope, not gonna do anything illegal just to excite you.” WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
PLACES TO GET HELP www.athinline.com www.thatsnotcool.com www.Loveisrespect.org www.marccenter.webs.com www.eyesonbullying.org www.commonsensemedia.org www.netsmartz/sexting DOVE, local domestic violence agency www.dovema.org WWW.NORFOLKADVOCATESFORCHILDREN.COM
NORFOLK ADVOCATES FOR CHILDREN QUESTIONS? Patricia A. Snell, MA and Amanda S. Wolfe, MPH Education ConsultantsNorfolk Advocates for Children Norfolk District Attorney’s Office