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REJECTION SENSITIVITY: ITS IMPACT ON INTERPERSONAL DIFFICULTIES AND ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS . Alexis V. Marbach December 17, 2009 SB721. REJECTION SENSITIVITY.
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REJECTION SENSITIVITY: ITS IMPACT ON INTERPERSONAL DIFFICULTIES AND ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS Alexis V. Marbach December 17, 2009 SB721
REJECTION SENSITIVITY • Rejection sensitivity is formally defined by Downey and Feldman (1996) as a, “cognitive-affective processing dynamic or disposition to anxiously expect, readily perceive and react in an exaggerated manner to cues of rejection in the behavior of others” (Romero-Canyas & Downey, 2005, 132).
CONCEPTUAL MODEL FOR RS Rejecting Experiences 1 Cognitive- Affective Reactions Rejection Sensitivity angry or anxious expectations of rejection Perceptions of rejection Behavioral Reactions 5 4 3 2
Implications of Rejection Sensitivity for adolescent romantic relationships Parental Rejection -abuse -neglect -rejection -hostility -conditional acceptance Peer Rejection -physical victimization -relational victimization Rejection by romantic partner Rejection because of status group characteristics -sexual orientation race/ethnicity disability Avoidance strategy: -avoids romantic relationships -postpones transition into romantic relationships -avoids investing in romantic relationships Rejection Sensitivity -Defensively expect rejection -Readily perceive rejection -Overreact to rejection Overinvestment Strategy: Reflective responses: Coercion -use of aggression to induce partner to remain in relationship -threats of self-harm to keep partner in relationship Compliance -Tolerating emotional, physical, or sexual abuse in order to maintain relationship Reflexive responses: -Withdrawl -Dejection or helplessness -Anger and hostility Response of others (Downey, Bonica, & Rincon, 1999, p. 150)
TOKEN RESISTANCE • By initially saying no, then giving in, a perpetrator learns that he or she should not accept “no” for an answer and that if they continue to push, their partner (or victim) will inevitably give in to their desires. • Young and Furman clarify by stating, “the clear and decided meaning of ‘no’ becomes eroded for the perpetrator when the result is not to consistently curb sexual activity” (Young & Furman, 2008, p. 306).
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