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Resolving Conflicts . Essential Question. How can you resolve conflicts within your relationships? . Lesson Objectives. The learner will be able to: discuss methods for resolving conflicts. create an “I message.” . What are conflicts? . Disagreements or problems in a relationship.
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Essential Question • How can you resolve conflicts within your relationships?
Lesson Objectives • The learner will be able to: • discuss methods for resolving conflicts. • create an “I message.”
What are conflicts? • Disagreements or problems in a relationship
Brainstorm: Why do people have conflicts? • People think differently and have different personalities, wants and needs.
Methods of Resolving Conflicts • Voice your concerns • Decide what the problem is • Listen to the other side • Suggest all possible solutions • Good conversation skills • Find the right time to resolve conflicts • Avoid bringing up a conflict when people are busy • Deal with issues, not personalities • Don’t allow conflict to go without being resolved
Manners • Rules for proper conduct • Form of nonverbal communication • Makes others feel comfortable • Reflects your attitude toward others
Active Listening • Involves the listener in the communication process • Restate what the speaker says “You mean…” • Send signals such as nodding your head • Ask questions to clarify • Listen before answering • Don’t interrupt • Keep your mind on what the speaker is saying.
“I Messages” • “I feel…” • Do not say “You…” • Do not place the blame • State your feelings