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HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. What are some Reasons for Dating?. Fun and enjoyable Friendship and intimacy Companionship and emotional support Learn how to communicate and resolve conflict effectively Explore characteristics you would like in a future partner or spouse. Are You Date-able?.
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What are someReasons for Dating? • Fun and enjoyable • Friendship and intimacy • Companionship and emotional support • Learn how to communicate and resolve conflict effectively • Explore characteristics you would like in a future partner or spouse
Are You Date-able? What makes someone Date-Able?
What are some characteristics you look for in a dating partner? • Is honest • Is unselfish • Treats you and others well • Is tolerant and respectful • Has similar values • Is fun to be with • Respects himself / herself Do you share the same qualities that you are looking for in someone to date?
What makes a relationship Healthy or Unhealthy? Would you be able to recognize an unhealthy relationship if you were in one?
Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships: Choose Respect Initiative, U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
Healthy Relationships Skills • Controlling Anger • Problem-solving • Negotiating and Compromising • Being Assertive • Fighting Fair • Understanding • Listening • Being a Role Model • Communicate! Choose Respect Initiative, U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
Respectful Dating Behavior What are some things you can do when first going out with someone to make things easier?
What are some of the benefits of Dating in Groups? • People often begin a relationship by dating in groups • Movies, dances, or sporting events • Get to know the other person without the pressure of being alone • Learn how your partner treats other people
What are some things you should consider when dating someone? • Respect the rules your parents and your partner’s parents have for dating (curfews) • Know your own and your partner’s sexual limits
Ending a Relationship • Most dating relationships that begin in adolescence eventually end • Hurt, frustration, anger, and sometimes a sense of relief can make break-ups feel over-whelming
Break ups can be difficult and emotional… What are some things you can do to make a break up easier?
Do’s & Don’ts when breaking up… • Avoid spreading rumors about your ex • Don’t repeatedly check your ex’s Facebook, etc. • Make plans with family, friends, new people • Avoid calling and texting your ex • Listen to music that makes you feel better • Get enough rest, do things you enjoy • Delete embarrassing or harmful pictures of your ex
No matter whose fault the break-up was, it’s important to know why a relationship didn’t work out to avoid the same thing happening in future relationships.