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Authentic Manhood. Winning at Work & Home. Session 10:. Maximum Parenting. Now the man had relations with his wife Eve, and she conceived and gave birth to Cain, and she said ... “I have begotten a manchild with the help of the Lord.” And again she gave birth to his brother, Abel.
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Authentic Manhood Winning at Work & Home Session 10: Maximum Parenting
Now the man had relations with his wife Eve, and she conceived and gave birth to Cain, and she said ... “I have begotten a manchild with the help of the Lord.” And again she gave birth to his brother, Abel. Genesis 4:1,2 And it came about when they were young men and in the field, that Cain rose up against his brother Abel and killed him. Genesis 4:8 The Ups and Downs of Parenting HIGHS LOWS
The fruit of the womb is a reward. Psalm 127:3 And Rebekah said to her husband Isaac, “I am tired of living. If our son Jacob marries a pagan woman, what good will my life be to me?” Genesis 27:46 The Ups and Downs of Parenting HIGHS LOWS
A wise son makes a father glad. Proverbs 10:1 And when David learned about the death of his foolish son Absalom he cried, “Oh my son Absalom, my son Absalom, my son Absalom, would I have died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son.” 2 Samuel 18:33 The Ups and Downs of Parenting HIGHS LOWS
The Ups and Downs of Parenting HIGHS The glory of the sons is their fathers. Proverbs 17:6 LOWS And Eli the priest heard all that his sons were doing and how they lay with women and he said to them ... “Why do you do such evil things?” ... But they would not listen to the voice of their father and the Lord desired to put them to death. 1 Samuel 2:22
A son who loves wisdom makes his father glad. Proverbs 29:3 A foolish son is a grief to his father and bitterness to the mother who bore him. Proverbs 17:25 The Ups and Downs of Parenting HIGHS LOWS
Children are a gift of the Lord. Psalm 127:3 Now Jephthah’s daughter was his only child. And it came about when he saw her, that he tore his clothes and said ... “Alas, my daughter, you have brought me very low, and you are among those who trouble me.” Judges 11:35 The Ups and Downs of Parenting HIGHS LOWS
And after Jesus was baptized, behold the heavens opened and God said, “This is my beloved Son in whom I am well pleased.” Matthew 3:17 A certain man had two sons, and the younger one said ... “Father, give me the share of the estate that falls to me.” And the son went away and squandered his estate with harlots and loose living. Luke 15:11-13 The Ups and Downs of Parenting HIGHS LOWS
And God blessed the man and his wife and said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply, fill the earth and subdue it, and rule over it.” Genesis 1:28 I have no greater joy than this, to hear of my children walking in the truth. 3 John 4 Four Handlebars for Maximum Parenting A. Hold onto the goal.
Four Handlebars for Maximum Parenting A. Hold onto the goal. • Pointing our children to God. • Praying that they will go there.
Therefore, be careful how you walk, not as unwise men, but as wise ... making the most of your time because the days are evil. Ephesians 5:15-16 Four Handlebars for Maximum Parenting B. Hold onto your time.
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So he shepherded them according to the integrity of his heart, and guided them with skillful hands. Psalm 78:72 Four Handlebars for Maximum Parenting C. Hold onto your responsibility.
Four Handlebars for Maximum Parenting C. Hold onto your responsibility. • We must live with integrity. • We must constantly upgrade our parenting skills.
Husbands, love your wives and do not be embittered against them. Colossians 3:19 Four Handlebars for Maximum Parenting D. Hold onto your mate.
Show me a man and woman who have children and I will show you a man and a woman who need more than ever to nurture their relationship to ensure it thrives and grows. There’s something about romance that’s intensely personal. It all gets started when two people look at each other and feel something powerful happening inside themselves. They sit down with each other and begin to share their thoughts and feelings. They talk about their dreams and their goals, their values, their beliefs, their hopes, and their fears.
There are few, if any, happily married persons I’ve interviewed who can get what they need from one another without engaging in this very personal, but direct process, on a regular basis. Sometimes men, who spend tremendous energy in their careers, want their wives to feel their love on the basis of “how hard I am working for both of us.” It doesn’t work like this. And sometimes women, who give passionately to their children, want their husbands to see “how much I obviously
love you because of how much I am giving to our kids.” It doesn’t work this way either. Romance requires personal, direct, face to face time. There is never a time when two people can keep their love growing and prospering without plenty of energy spent relating to each other individually and intimately. This is why I encourage people who have children to schedule time for romance. Work it in ... at least once a week. Neil Warren Triumphant Marriage
Four Handlebars for Maximum Parenting D. Hold onto your mate. The greatest gift you can give your kids is to love their mother.