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Authentic Manhood. Winning at Work & Home. Session 3:. Engaging “Your Woman” Successfully. “Husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way .” 1 Peter 3:7. Long Standing Wisdom. A. This “way” is not natural for men.
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Authentic Manhood Winning at Work & Home Session 3: Engaging “Your Woman” Successfully
“Husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way.” 1 Peter 3:7
Long Standing Wisdom A. This “way” is not natural for men. B. This “way” is not just head knowledge.
“Husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way.” 1 Peter 3:7
“Men, win with your woman through wise actions supported by proven insight.” 1 Peter 3:7
Your Place on the Manhood Team A. Sideliner B. Starter C. All-Star
What An All-Star Masters A. He’s the man who knows his woman’s key needs and is actively engaged in meeting them. B. He’s the man who knows his woman’s personality and wisely adjusts to it. C. He’s the man who knows his woman’s love language and speaks it often.
The Four Personality Types A. Sanguine B. Choleric C. Phlegmatic D. Melancholy
SANGUINE KEYWORD: Popular BEST AT: Making initial contact with people Creating enthusiasm and excitement Encouraging and uplifting others Insuring the group has fun PRESENTS AS: Outgoing and engaging MAJOR NEEDS: Fun and adventure
CHOLERIC KEYWORD: Powerful BEST AT: Motivating people to action Giving quick and clear instruction Getting it done Leading PRESENTS AS: Authoritative and convincing MAJOR NEEDS: Action and excitement
PHLEGMATIC KEYWORD: BEST AT: PRESENTS AS: MAJOR NEEDS: Peaceful Staying calm and functional Not over-reacting to a negative situation Effective listener Making sure the group is relaxed and comfortable Believable Rest and quiet time
MELANCHOLY KEYWORD: Perfect BEST AT: Planning and explaining the details Doing it right Sensitive to the needs of others Good with numbers, charts, graphs, etc. PRESENTS AS: Accurate and sincere MAJOR NEEDS: Order and understanding
Three Important Summaries 1. A person’s personality can grow and mature, but it’s not going to change. 2. Honestly embracing your woman’s personality and appreciating it is essential for a long term, love relationship. 3. Marrying this personality says something deep about you as a man: opposites usually attract to balance, refine, and mature one another.
The Five Love Languages • Words of Affirmation • Quality Time • Receiving Gifts • Acts of Service • Physical Touch
How to Recognize Your Love Language 1. You like to express love this way to your mate. 2. You ask for this love from your mate often. 3. You are deeply hurt when your mate gives you the opposite of this.
How to Know Your Woman’s Love Language 1. Talk it out with her. 2. Get specific applications from her.