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Creating Lasting Change. Dealing With Difficulties. “I struggle with the idea that the difficulties that we have are lovingly given to us by H- shm . Some of the difficulties are extremely hurtful and painful .”. See a Much Bigger Picture. Samayach B’Chelko. Skip Step Two. Lots of step twos.
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Dealing With Difficulties “I struggle with the idea that the difficulties that we have are lovingly given to us by H-shm. Some of the difficulties are extremely hurtful and painful.”
Your Map Self now Self you’d like to be Ideal Self
Balance Body/Physical- vehicle, means, tool Heart/Emotional/relationships - impetus, workshops, distraction, measurement instruments Mind/Intellect-vehicle of connecting, sharing, stretching Spirit/Soul- yearning, purpose and meaning, goals
Signposts/micro goals Clear below “self I’d like to be” Articulate (Possible written mission statement) Check against macro goal Set a Time frame (sequential or dated) General below “Ideal Self” In all 4 categories: body, heart, mind, spirit
“Of course motivation is not permanent. But then, neither is bathing; but it is something you should do on a regular basis.” ― Zig Ziglar
Read and Learn Stephen Covey- The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, The 8th Habit, First Things First AviFertig- Bridging the Gap, E. E. Dessler - Strive for Truth Aryeh Kaplan- Inner Space, AkivaTatz, Esther Wein S. R. Hirsch Chumash and more Masterplan (bigger view, Hirsch and Carmell)
Keep it going Check Your Map Regularly: (daily, weekly, at least monthly) Read and Learn Listen: TorahAnytime.com, Aish.com, Torah.org, ou.org, yutorah.org Daven: Shema, Potayach et yadechau’masbial’chol chai ratzon, Hashem s’fataitiftach, u’fiyagidt’hilatecha Friends: (Moshe with Yehoshua and Chur) Stay in touch: alizabulow@gmail.com, ABiteOfTorah.com
PirkeiAvot 2:21 It is not upon you to finish the work, neither are you free to desist from it.
Hatzlacha Rabbah!!! A Freilichen Chanukah!