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Communication. Communication is a symbolic, transactional process, or the process of creating and sharing meaning. Transactional means that when people communicate, they have a mutual impact on each other. A message is sent verbally and nonverbally The message is received and interpreted
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Communication • Communication is a symbolic, transactional process, or the process of creating and sharing meaning. • Transactional means that when people communicate, they have a mutual impact on each other. • A message is sent verbally and nonverbally • The message is received and interpreted • Verbal and nonverbal feedback is usually given • Feedback is offered by the sender
Principles of Communication • One cannot not behave • One cannot not communicate • The meaning of a given behavior is not the true meaning of the behavior; it is, however, the personal truth for the person who has given it a particular meaning (subjective) • Be curious! What is their reality? • Communication takes place in a context
Interpersonal Communication Model Noise Interference Noise Interference Senders Actions (Public) Effect On Listener (Private) Senders Intentions (Private) Senders Style Of Encoding Listeners Style Of Decoding
Barriers to Listening • Preoccupation or Lack of Interest • 1. Listen and develop interest. • 2. Pretend to listen. • 3. Tell them your not interested (honesty). • Environmental Factors • Noise, Distractions, Context or Situation • Psychological Filter • Assumptions, Hopes, Preconceived Ideas, Stereotypes, Labels, Attitudes, Selective Attention
Barriers to Listening Cont… • Emotions • Emotional states impact our ability to focus • Take time out or learn to self-regulate • Rate Differences • Average rate of speech is125 to 175 words per minute whereas the brain can process 500 to 1,000 words a minute (challenge to not wander in our thoughts. • Interpersonal Distance • Intimate Zone (chest to 18 inches) • Personal Zone (18 inches to 4 ft) • Social Zone (4 ft to 12 ft)
Negative Listening Behaviors • Interrupting • Negative Listening Gestures • Cheek Puffing, Eye Rolling, Shoulder Shrugging,, Sighing, Smiling
Improving Listening Behaviors • Open and Attentive Body Position • Position in Relation to the Speaker • Positive Eye Contact • Lack of Confidence, Dishonesty, Lying, etc. • Facial Expression • Be Aware. • Head and Body Movements • Nodding. • Verbal Responses • Paraphrasing, Clarifying, and Feedback