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Communication and The Self, Part 2. Presenting the Self Disclosing the Self. Identity Management. Identity Management : The communication strategies that people use to influence how others view them. Presenting the Selves. Public Self/Presenting Self Private Self.
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Communication and The Self, Part 2 Presenting the Self Disclosing the Self
Identity Management • Identity Management: The communication strategies that people use to influence how others view them.
Presenting the Selves • Public Self/Presenting Self • Private Self
Characteristics of Identity Management • We have multiple identities • ID Management is Collaborative • Deliberate or Unconscious • Varies by situation
Why Manage Impressions • Social Rules • Personal Goals • Relational Goals
How do we Manage Impressions? • Face to face communication • Social Media • ID management & Honesty We must decide what to disclose about our self to others in order to manage our identities.
Self-Disclosure • Self-Disclosure: The process of deliberaterevealing information about oneself that is significant and would not normally be known to others.
Benefits to Self-Disclosure • Catharsis • Self-Clarification • Self-Validation • Reciprocity • Impression Formation • Relational Maintenance • Moral Obligation • Social Influence • Self Defense
Risks of Self-Disclosure • Rejection • Negative Impression • Decrease in Relational Satisfaction • Loss of Influence/Control • Hurt
Guidelines for Appropriate Self-Disclosure 1. Self-Disclose the kind of information you want others to disclose to you.
Guidelines • 2. Self-Disclose more intimate information only when you believe the disclosure represents acceptable risk.
Guidelines • 3. Continue intimate self-disclosure only if it is reciprocated.
Guidelines • 4. Move Self-Disclosure to deeper levels gradually.
Final Guideline • 5. Reserve the most personal and sensitive self-disclosure for ongoing, intimate relationships.
Balance • Important to have correct balance in relationship of self-disclosure and privacy. • What is the correct balance?
Alternatives to Self-Disclosure • Silence • Lie • Equivocation • Hinting
Self Concept Assignment • Due Tuesday, 9/18!