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Dive into the world of the best-selling book "The 7 Habits" and explore how habits shape your life. Uncover the power of proactive choices, aligning paradigms with principles, and gaining control of your life. Discover the transformative impact of being proactive and how it can lead to personal and professional effectiveness. Learn to carry your own weather and harness the four human endowments for a more empowered life. Take the proactive vs. reactive quiz, understand paradigm shifts, and embark on a journey towards continuous improvement and self-awareness. Join the movement towards a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life!
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WELCOME - The International Best-Seller • Housekeeping • Sign In Sheet • Update Contact Info • Name Tag • FIRST NAME • Table Tent • Full Name • “Hat” Wearing • Greatest HOPE for ROI • Inventory • Place Your Dot 1 Foundation
END IN MIND • WHY the Habits? • 7 Habits Promise/Greatest Hope/Contract • Foundation of the 7 Habits • Habit 1 – Be Proactive • Habit 2 – Begin With the End in Mind
WHY YOUR HABITS MATTER YOU are the core! ME – WE – US! 1 Foundation
God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to change the one I can, and the wisdom to know, it’s ME!
Video The 7 Habits Promise 1 Foundation
The 7 Habits Contract – p. 2-3 2 Foundation
The 7 Habits Contract—Online 2 Foundation
What is a Habit? Something you do on a regular basis without conscious thought Habits form when 3 things intersect: What and Why Want How
Effective Habits Ineffective Habits Effective Habits = • Internalized principles • Positive results • Long-term impact • Contribute to your well-being & happiness
STARTS WITH YOU CHARACTER
Muriel Summers WORK & PLAY WITH OTHERS PERSONALITY
Muriel Summers Continuous Improvement CARE FOR YOURSELF
Maturity Continuum – p. 6 • Attitude • Skill • Behavior • 1:4 • 2:5 • 3:6 5 Foundation
See Do Get See-Do-Get – p. 7 – Paradigm Shift – p. 8-9 Paradigm Behavior Result 7 Foundation
Align Paradigms with Principles – p. 10 • Self-evident, natural laws • Universal • Timeless • Objective • At work whether or not weunderstand or value them 10 Foundation
Effectiveness – p. 12 – Your P/PC Balance – p. 13 ProductionCapability Production 12 Foundation
Teach to Learn- p. 14-15 1 30–31 Habit Be Proactive
Be Proactive HABIT 1 – BE PROACTIVE – The Habit of CHOICE Habit 1 19
Proactive vs. Reactive Quiz Caution on the Scale • I get angry in traffic • When I see someone I want to know, I approach him or her without hesitation. • I often worry myself to sleep • I stick to my exercise regimen. • My diet is very diverse. I have favorites but I eat them in moderation.
Proactive vs. Reactive Quiz – continued • I am free of addictions such as coffee, cigarettes, sugar, chocolate and other drugs. • I do not pass judgment or become upset until I have all of the facts. • When I am late for work, it is due to a factor outside my control. • I always keep my promises. • Occasionally, I feel overwhelmed.
Proactive vs. Reactive Quiz – SCORING 40-50 You show a high degree of consciousness and you are proactive. Life is good and you know it! 30-39 You are conscious and proactive more often than not. You are doing OK, but your life can be better. 20-29 Reactive thinking impacts your life and you are living under the influence of your emotions. You likely have greater potential than you are experiencing. 0-19 Reactive thinking heavily impacts your life and you are living under the influence of your emotions. You likely have much greater potential than you are experiencing.
Choices based on principles (not feelings, mood or impulse) Reactions Ownership Language How we impact others Small daily occurrences Life’s big challenges How to be Proactive
Habit 1: Be Proactive – p. 20 1 20 Habit Be Proactive
Habit 1—Principle – p. 21 Paradigm The Habit of CHOICE I am free to chooseand am responsiblefor my choices. Result Behavior 1 21 Habit Be Proactive
Habit 1—Paradigms – p. 21 Ineffective: I am a product of my circumstances. Effective: I am a product of my choices. 1 21 Habit Be Proactive
The Four Human Endowments – p. 23 Self-Awareness: Our ability to examine our own thoughts, moods, and behaviors Imagination: Our ability to visualize beyond our current experience and circumstances Conscience: Our understanding of rightand wrong Independent Will: Our ability to act independent of external influences 1 23 Habit Be Proactive
“Whine” List Round 1: Tell your partner all of your “have to’s” and “must do’s” coming up in the next week. Round 2: Convert the “have to’s” and “must do’s” into “I choose to” or “I’m going to.” 1 25 Habit Be Proactive
Proactive vs. Reactive Language – p. 25 I decided to… They made me… I am going to… I have to… There’s got to be It can’t be done…another way… ?_____________ ?______________ 1 25 Habit Be Proactive
THINK ABOUT • What bothers YOU? • Circle of Influence or Circle of Control? • Carry Your OWN WEATHER
How to Gain More Control of Your Life Proactive people live here Reactive people live here Control Influence No control or influence Impact Energy and time depleted Worry & Anxiety Expand trustworthiness Empowerment 1 26 Habit Be Proactive
Habit 1 VIDEO LEO CAM
Become a Transition Person – p. 29 1 29 Habit Be Proactive
Teach to Learn 30-31 1 30–31 Habit Be Proactive