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Communication Styles: Passive, Assertive, Aggressive. Amy Hume Discussion Session #13. Goals for Today. Understand different communication styles and how they affect others Practice recognizing and crafting messages in different styles Learn about assertiveness skills.
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Communication Styles: Passive, Assertive, Aggressive Amy Hume Discussion Session #13
Goals for Today • Understand different communication styles and how they affect others • Practice recognizing and crafting messages in different styles • Learn about assertiveness skills
Aggressive Passive Assertive Respect for Self & Others No Respect for Others No Respect for Self It’s all about respect
How about…? Can’t speak up
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Can’t speak up
How about…? Loud
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Can’t speak up
How about…? Firm
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Can’t speak up Firm
How about…? Don’t know my rights
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Firm
How about…? Direct
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Firm Direct
How about…? Bossy
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Firm Direct
How about…? Honest
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Firm Direct Honest
How about…? Pushy
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Firm Direct Honest
How about…? Respect rights of others
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others
How about…? Get stepped on
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others
How about…? Meek
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others
How about…? Dominating
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others
How about…? Intimidating
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others
How about…? Too accommodating
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Too accommodating Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others
How about…? Violate others’ rights using power, position & language
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Violate others’ rights using power, position & language Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Too accommodating Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others
How about…? Talks softly
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Violate others’ rights using power, position & language Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Too accommodating Talks softly Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others
How about…? Recognize the importance of having my needs & rights respected
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Violate others’ rights using power, position & language Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Too accommodating Talks softly Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others Recognize the importance of having my needs & rights respected
How about…? Must get my way
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Violate others’ rights using power, position & language Must get my way Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Too accommodating Talks softly Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others Recognize the importance of having my needs & rights respected
How about…? Gives “cold fish” handshakes
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Violate others’ rights using power, position & language Must get my way Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Too accommodating Talks softly Gives “cold fish” handshakes Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others Recognize the importance of having my needs & rights respected
How about…? Don’t stand up for my rights
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Violate others’ rights using power, position & language Must get my way Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Too accommodating Talks softly Gives “cold fish” handshakes Don’t stand up for my rights Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others Recognize the importance of having my needs & rights respected
How about…? React instantly
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Violate others’ rights using power, position & language Must get my way React instantly Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Too accommodating Talks softly Gives “cold fish” handshakes Don’t stand up for my rights Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others Recognize the importance of having my needs & rights respected
How about…? Avoid conflicts
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Violate others’ rights using power, position & language Must get my way React instantly Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Too accommodating Talks softly Gives “cold fish” handshakes Don’t stand up for my rights Avoid conflicts Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others Recognize the importance of having my needs & rights respected
How about…? Confident
Communication Styles Passive Assertive Aggressive Loud Bossy Pushy Dominating Intimidating Violate others’ rights using power, position & language Must get my way React instantly Can’t speak up Don’t know my rights Get stepped on Meek Too accommodating Talks softly Gives “cold fish” handshakes Don’t stand up for my rights Avoid conflicts Firm Direct Honest Respect rights of others Recognize the importance of having my needs & rights respected Confident