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Boys Are from Mars, Girls Are From Venus

Boys Are from Mars, Girls Are From Venus. Sue Bohlin Probe Ministries sue@probe.org Suebohlin.com. Not All Kids Are the Same . Active,athletic. Sensitive, creative. Tomboy, jockette. Girly-girl. Sense of self: achievement Have to have something to do Self-reliant

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Boys Are from Mars, Girls Are From Venus

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  1. Boys Are from Mars, Girls Are From Venus Sue Bohlin Probe Ministries sue@probe.org Suebohlin.com

  2. Not All Kids Are the Same Active,athletic Sensitive, creative Tomboy, jockette Girly-girl

  3. Sense of self: achievement Have to have something to do Self-reliant Ask for help = weakness Sense of self: relationships Relationally-oriented Connected to others Ask for help = compliment Boys Girls

  4. Competitive Cooperative Boys Girls

  5. Linear: focus on one thing at a time Compartmentalized (like a chest of drawers) Multi-taskers: juggle many little things at once Connected (like a ball of yarn) Boys Girls

  6. Action-oriented Hostility: physical Verbal Hostility: verbal Boys Girls

  7. Need a goal Enjoy the process Boys Girls

  8. Bond shoulder to shoulder Bond face to face Boys Girls

  9. Girls Empathy nurturers: • Relating to and understanding others’ feelings • Compassion • Softness • Tenderness • Comfort

  10. Boys Aggression nurturers: • Physically aggressive touch and words • Challenging • Competition • “You’re OK, get up”

  11. Primarily needs respect Trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, encouragement Needs to be needed. Primarily needs cherishing Tender care, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, reassurance Needs to be protected. Boys Girls

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