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Motivation Breakthrough. Secrets to Turning On the Tuned-Out Child. Richard D. Lavoie, M.A., M.Ed. THE MOTIVATION BREAKTHROUGH: Secrets to Turning On the Tuned-Out Child. POULTRY INSPIRATION CAROUSEL. MAKE BELIEVE. “Oh, you must have so much…. PATIENCE!!.
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Motivation Breakthrough Secrets to Turning On the Tuned-Out Child Richard D. Lavoie, M.A., M.Ed.
THE MOTIVATION BREAKTHROUGH:Secrets to Turning On the Tuned-Out Child
“You are using aCLOSED BOOKformat to preparekids for anOPEN BOOKworld”
APATOSAURUS BRONTOSAURUS =
Unlearn Learn Relearn
Myth #1 “Danny…NOTHING Motivates that kid”
Myth #2 “That kid! One day he’s motivated…the next day he’s not”
Myth #3 “Give him something…that’ll motivate him!”
Premack Principle “Eat your vegetables and you’ll get your dessert”
Myth #4 “He won’t even try! He’s so LAZY!”
Myth #5 COMPETITION: The Great Motivator
WHY? • It’s motivating! • It’s a big bad world out there!
“The only person motivated by competition is the person who thinks he has a chance of winning.”
Competition Myth #1 “We do our best work when involved in head-to-head competition with others”
Competition Myth #2 In the classroom, a teacher has no option. The classroom is - by its very nature - competitive
Individualized • Cooperative • Competitive
Competition Myth #3 Our modern society is very competitive and schools should prepare students for this competitive environment
Adult, real world competition • Only compete when you wish to • Only compete against peers
Competition Myth #4 Children are naturally competitive
WHY DO YOU PLAY SPORTS? • To have fun • To improve skills • To stay in shape • To do something I’m good at • To get exercise • To be part of a team • The challenge of competition Athletic Footwear Association 3900 High School Athletes
Myth #6 “The more you put into it…the more you get out of it” “The harder you try…the better you’ll do!”
“It will be a great day when we recognizePerformance Inconsistency as part of the LD child’s profile…rather than as evidence for the prosecution.”Mel Levine. M.D.
Myth #7 Turning WORK into PLAY
If he would only try HARDER, he would do BETTER If he only DID BETTER, he would TRY HARDER
Primary Needs • Hunger • Thirst • Sex (uality) • Air • Rest • Escape from Pain • Elimination of waste
Secondary Needs • Status • Inquisitiveness • Affiliation • Power • Aggression • Autonomy • Achievement • Gregariousness
“The degree to which YOUR self-concept is influenced by the opinions of other people…”
POWER:The need for control, power, influence and/or authority