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Rhetoric. Controlling the Tense o r These Are Not the Tenses You Are Looking For. Marge: Homer, it’s very easy to criticize… Homer: And fun, too!. Review of Last Week. When you are in an argument, try…. to outscore your opponent? t o get your way?. All Issues boil down to 3 things:.
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Rhetoric Controlling the Tense or These Are Not the Tenses You Are Looking For
Marge: Homer, it’s very easy to criticize…Homer: And fun, too!
When you are in an argument, try… • to outscore your opponent? • to get your way?
All Issues boil down to 3 things: • BLAME • VALUES • CHOICES* • * most effective
Should Lebron James have gone to Miami to chase rings? VALUES
Why is this important? • You will never meet your goals if you argue around the wrong issue. • SHE: Can you turn that down a little? • HE: You’re the one who set the volume last. • SHE: Oh, really? Then who was it blasting “In Da Club” all over the place this afternoon? • HE: So that’s what this is about. You hate my music.
The rhetoric of the Past deals with JUSTICE. (also called forensics)
The rhetoric of the present deals with people bonding. • We decide who belongs to our tribe. • Rhetoric tends to finish with people bonding or separating. • SHE: What movie did you have in mind? • HE: We haven’t seen Titanic in ages. • SHE: Titanic? I hate that movie.
Rhetorical Trick: Propose an extreme choice first. • HE: How about Henry for a name? • SHE: Ugh. • HE: How about Kallandro for a name? • SHE: No! • HE: Mystique? • SHE: Are you serious? • HE: How about Henry? • SHE: Fine.
The Rhetoric of the Future promises a pay-off. • FATHER: Who used all the toothpaste? • SON: That’s not the question, is it, Dad? The question is, how are we going to keep it from happening again? • Can you bring it into the present?
Try this one…using future tense. • We shouldn’t let kids play on those monkey bars. They could break their necks. • On the other hand…
MARGE: Homer, I don’t want you driving around in a car you built yourself.HOMER: You can sit there complaining, or you can knit me some seat belts. • How does Homer use tense?
NED FLANDERS: You ugly, hate-filled man.MOE: Hey, I may be ugly, and I may be hate-filled, but…uh…what was the last thing you said? • How does Moe fail here?
To review • CONTROL THE ISSUE • Do you want to fix blame? • Define who meets or abuses your common values? • Or get your audience to make a choice? • CONTROL THE CLOCK • Make sure your argument is in the right TENSE.