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Communication. 傳意. Message. Let’s go eat. ENCODE. A. B. Communication. CHANNEL - AIR. Fisher, T. & Smith, T.L.(1987) The Key to Survival: Interpersonal Communication. Illinois: Waveland Press, Inc. Message. Let’s go eat. ENCODE. DECODE. A. O.K. Let’s. FEEDBACK. B. Communication.
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Message Let’s go eat. ENCODE A B Communication CHANNEL - AIR Fisher, T. & Smith, T.L.(1987) The Key to Survival: Interpersonal Communication. Illinois: Waveland Press, Inc.
Message Let’s go eat. ENCODE DECODE A O.K. Let’s FEEDBACK B Communication CHANNEL - AIR Fisher, T. & Smith, T.L.(1987) The Key to Survival: Interpersonal Communication. Illinois: Waveland Press, Inc.
A’s ENVIRONMENT B’s ENVIRONMENT PSYCHOLOGICAL NOISE PSYCHOLOGICAL NOISE Message IDEA Let’s go eat. SHARED ENCODE DECODE ENVIRONMENT A O.K. Let’s FEEDBACK B Communication ATMOSPHERE NOISE Fisher, T. & Smith, T.L.(1987) The Key to Survival: Interpersonal Communication. Illinois: Waveland Press, Inc.
I Just bought my daughter a car . What kind of car? LISTENER SPEAKER Communication Burley-Allen, M.(1982). Listening the Forgotten Skill. N.Y.: John Wiley & Sons, Inc.
A Porsche. New or used? LISTENER SPEAKER Communication Burley-Allen, M.(1982). Listening the Forgotten Skill. N.Y.: John Wiley & Sons, Inc.
New. What color is it? LISTENER SPEAKER Communication Burley-Allen, M.(1982). Listening the Forgotten Skill. N.Y.: John Wiley & Sons, Inc.
White. It would have been easier for your to say you bought your daughter a newwhitePorsche! Communication LISTENER SPEAKER Burley-Allen, M.(1982). Listening the Forgotten Skill. N.Y.: John Wiley & Sons, Inc.
Communication Everythingabout you Fisher, T. & Smith, T.L.(1987) The Key to Survival: Interpersonal Communication. Illinois: Waveland Press, Inc.
Communication Knowntoself Not Knowntoself Fisher, T. & Smith, T.L.(1987) The Key to Survival: Interpersonal Communication. Illinois: Waveland Press, Inc.
Communication Knownto others Not knownto others Fisher, T. & Smith, T.L.(1987) The Key to Survival: Interpersonal Communication. Illinois: Waveland Press, Inc.
Communication 2BLIND 1OPEN 3HIDDEN 4UNKNOWN Fisher, T. & Smith, T.L.(1987) The Key to Survival: Interpersonal Communication. Illinois: Waveland Press, Inc.
1OPEN 2BLIND 2BLIND 1OPEN 4UNKNOWN 3HIDDEN 3HIDDEN 4UNKNOWN Communication Fisher, T. & Smith, T.L.(1987) The Key to Survival: Interpersonal Communication. Illinois: Waveland Press, Inc.
Original Story Type of listening distortion to the Story Ending Story Filters Misinterpretation Loss of Detail Substitutions Additions Additions Communication BEFUDDLING Burley-Allen, M.(1982). Listening the Forgotten Skill. N.Y.: John Wiley & Sons, Inc.
說話的情景和語境 • 甲:你身上有帶錢了嗎? • 乙:什麼事?要多少? • 甲:借+塊錢給我吧! • 甲: 你身上有帶錢了嗎? • 乙:你沒帶嗎?我有! • 甲:不,我怕你沒帶!
說話的情景和語境 • 男:我睡著時會飛。 • 女:你做夢! • 男:其實,你是很愛我的,是嗎? • 女:你做夢!
說話的情景和語境 • 甲:我的那盒糖果呢? • 乙:我剛才正餓著呢。 • 甲:我的那盒糖果呢? • 乙:我早已上班去了。 • 甲:我的那盒糖果呢? • 乙:小孩子今天不用上學。
Assertive Collaborative Controlling Affiliative Nonaffiliative Withdrawing Obliging Nonassertive 四種影響說話的行為 Leaper, 2000; Hargie, and Dickson, 2004
Target Point Resistance Point $550 $650 Resistance Point Buyer $500 $650 Resistance Point Target Point Seller 談判的過程 • Pre-negotiation • Opening • Exploration • Bargaining • Settlement