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Discussion. Suppose you could have any skill, object, or situation before becoming a parent. What would you choose and why?. Maslow’s Hierarchy of Human Needs Abraham Harold Maslow.
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Discussion • Suppose you could have any skill, object, or situation before becoming a parent. What would you choose and why? 1.01-Children's Needs
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Human NeedsAbraham Harold Maslow “According to Maslow's theory, all needs have a certain priority. Needs of one level must at least partially fulfilled before a person can realize higher needs.” (Ryder/Decker, 391) 1.01-Children's Needs
What are Maslow’s Human Needs? Self-actualization Esteem Needs Love and Acceptance Needs Safety and Security Needs Physical Needs 1.01-Children's Needs
Physical needs Food Water Air Shelter Clothing These items are essential for good health and well-being, and for continuation of life. What did Maslow mean by physical needs? What physical needs does every person have? 1.01-Children's Needs
Physical needs Consider these questions? Are you meeting these needs for your well being and good health? Who provides these needs for you? Could you provide these needs for a baby? 1.01-Children's Needs
Safety and Security Needs Staying well, avoiding being ill Avoiding danger Safe circumstances Stability Protection Structure, for order, some limits How do these safety and security needs relate to you? 1.01-Children's Needs
Safety and Security Needs In the ordinary American adult, this set of needs manifests itself in the form of urges to have a home in a safe neighborhood, a little job security and a nest egg, a good retirement plan and a bit of insurance, and so on. Which of these are met for you? Which of these needs could you provide for a baby? 1.01-Children's Needs
Love and Acceptance Needs Friends, sweetheart, children, affectionate relationships in general, even a sense of community What are some examples of love and acceptance you see in your life? 1.01-Children's Needs
The Esteem needs Self-esteem The need for the respect of others, the need for status, fame, glory, recognition, attention, reputation, appreciation, dignity, and even dominance. Self-respect Confidence, competence, achievement, mastery, independence, and freedom 1.01-Children's Needs
Self-actualization According to Maslow, only a small percentage of the world’s population is truly, predominantly, self-actualizing. Can you think of people who fit into the self-actualization category? 1.01-Children's Needs
Self-actualization Knowledge and appreciation of beauty, goodness, freedom and a realistic view and acceptance of self and others Reality-centered, differentiate what is fake and dishonest from what is real and genuine. Problem-centered, treating life’s difficulties as problems demanding solutions, not as personal troubles to be railed at or surrendered to. Different perception of means and ends, that the ends don’t necessarily justify the means, that the means could be ends themselves, and that the means -- the journey -- is often more important than the ends. 1.01-Children's Needs
Meeting Children’s Needs 1.01-Children's Needs
Nurture Children Providing the type of care that encourages healthy growth and development Giving a child opportunities for encouragement and enrichment When parents nurture, they show love, support and concern 1.01-Children's Needs
Parents provide a watchful eye and quick reflexes to keep children safe. Protect from others Protect Children 1.01-Children's Needs
Teaching is introducing new ideas, and providing a stimulating environment. Why do you think parents are a child’s first teacher? Teach Children 1.01-Children's Needs
Using firmness and understanding to help children learn to control their own behavior Guide Children How should parents guide children? 1.01-Children's Needs
USDA data: The cost of raising a child from birth to 18 is $124,800 for lower income to $170,460.00 for a higher income family That doesn't even touch college tuition. 1.01-Children's Needs
Financial Facts Parents who have a dual income of $40,000-$66,000 per year will spend approximately $170,000 on a child before age eighteen, about $10,000 per year. 1.01-Children's Needs
Legal Responsibilities Parents have a legal responsibility to provide food, clothing, shelter, medical care and education for their children. Parents may also be financially responsible for damages to property or injury of another person caused by their child 1.01-Children's Needs
What happens if legal needs are not met? • Parents can forfeit rights as parents. • If parents neglect their legal responsibilities as parents, a judge may issue an order for termination of parental rights. • Reasons for termination of parental rights include severe abuse or neglect, abandonment, and long-term alcohol or drug abuse. 1.01-Children's Needs
What happens to a child when parental rights are lost? • Foster care • Adoptive homes 1.01-Children's Needs
Provide Financial Support • Children are expensive • Financial resources are needed to pay for clothes, health care, food equipment, and other expenses 1.01-Children's Needs
The Cost of Raising a Child USDA 2006 1.01-Children's Needs