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HOPE -FILLED ENGAGEMENT THROUGH MATTERING GRAY POEHNELL Cannexus, January 23 , 2012

HOPE -FILLED ENGAGEMENT THROUGH MATTERING GRAY POEHNELL Cannexus, January 23 , 2012 graypoehnell@mac.com. 1 HOPE-FILLED ENGAGEMENT. “ CAREER STUFF” CAN SEEM HOPELESS. CAREER. LIFE. AN ALTERNATIVE APPROACH. HOPE. @2012, Gray Poehnell. HOPE -FILLED ENVIRONMENT. HOPE. resiliency.

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HOPE -FILLED ENGAGEMENT THROUGH MATTERING GRAY POEHNELL Cannexus, January 23 , 2012

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  1. HOPE-FILLED ENGAGEMENTTHROUGH MATTERING GRAY POEHNELL Cannexus, January 23, 2012 graypoehnell@mac.com

  2. 1 HOPE-FILLED ENGAGEMENT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  3. “CAREER STUFF” CAN SEEM HOPELESS Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  4. CAREER LIFE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  5. AN ALTERNATIVEAPPROACH Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  6. HOPE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering @2012, Gray Poehnell

  7. HOPE-FILLEDENVIRONMENT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  8. HOPE resiliency holistic inclusive positive balanced engaging mattering realistic imaginative supportive gratitude& joy trust spiritual flexible simple creative Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  9. 2 WHAT IS MATTERING Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  10. beliefs people have, whether right or wrong, that they matter to someone else, that they are the object of someone else’s attention, and that others care about them and appreciate them. MATTERING, Amundson, Active Engagement Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  11. 3 MATTERING MATTERS Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  12. MATTERING HOPE WILLINGNESS TO TRY Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  13. “what difference does it make?” “so what?”“who cares?” “that’s just the way it is” “what’s the use?” “what’s the point of trying?” “why bother?” “I can’t make a difference” I DON’T MATTER - THERE IS NO HOPE - SO WHY TRY Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  14. MATTER substance tangible VISIBLITY Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  15. MATTERING substance tangible VISIBLITY & RECOGNITION Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  16. MATTERING substance tangible VISIBLITY & RECOGNITION MAKING A DIFFERENCE VALUE importance significance meaning Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  17. INVISIBLEPEOPLE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  18. Liu Bolin: the Vanishing Artist Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  19. INVISIBLETO THEMSELVES Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  20. LEARNEDHELPLESSNESS/HOPELESSNESS Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  21. the giving-up reaction, the quitting response that follows from the belief that whatever you do doesn’t matter. LEARNED HELPLESSNESS Seligman, Learned Optimism Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  22. Life Experiences Negative Explanatory Style Nothing I domatters Nothing I do will ever matter Why try? Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  23. INVISIBLETO OTHERS Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  24. CHICAGO Mr. Cellophane Lyrics sung by Amos If someone stood up in a crowd And raised his voice up way out loud And waved his arm and shook his leg You'd notice him  
If someone in the movie show Yelled "Fire in the second row This whole place is a powder keg!” You'd notice him Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  25. CHICAGO Mr. Cellophane Lyrics sung by Amos And even without clucking like a hen
Everyone gets noticed, now and then, Unless, of course, that personage should be Invisible, inconsequential me!  
Cellophane
Mister Cellophane Shoulda been my name Mister Cellophane
'Cause you can look right through me Walk right by me And never know I'm there…. Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  26. CHICAGO Mr. Cellophane Lyrics sung by Amos
…  A human being's made of more than air With all that bulk, you're bound to see him there Unless that human bein' next to you Is unimpressive, undistinguished You know who...
 Cellophane Mister Cellophane Shoulda been my name
Mister Cellophane 'Cause you can look right through me Walk right by me And never know I'm there… Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  27. SOME SYSTEMICCHALLENGES Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  28. CAREER goals work exp education Diversity? skills, etc Starting Points? Positive focused self-reflection? HOPELESS Enculturated humility? LIFE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  29. Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  30. Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  31. Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  32. WE SEEWHAT MOST DON’T Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  33. CAREER goals work exp education Diversity? skills, etc Starting Points? Positive focused self-reflection? HOPELESS Enculturated humility? LIFE Engage people wherethey are engaged in life!! Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  34. CAREER goals work exp education Diversity? skills, etc Starting Points? Positive focused self-reflection? HOPE Enculturated humility? LIFE Engage people wherethey are engaged in life!! Hope-Filled Engagement

  35. WE HELP PEOPLE TO SEEWHAT THEY CAN’T SEE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  36. I HAVE VALUE! WHAT I DO MAKES A DIFFERENCE! Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  37. 4 INSIGHTFUL CROSS-TRAINING Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  38. BUTTERFLY EFFECT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  39. every decision we make and everything we do no matter how smallhas a profound effect on the world around us BUTTERFLY EFFECT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  40. Sensitive Dependence on Initial Conditions BUTTERFLY EFFECT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  41. even small and seemingly insignificant changes at the start of a process can produce significantly different results BUTTERFLY EFFECT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  42. Hope-Filled Engagement

  43. SMALL CHANGEBIG DIFFERENCE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  44. WHAT SMALL CHANGESCOULD YOU MAKE? Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  45. LEARNED OPTIMISM:HOW TO CHANGE YOUR MIND AND YOUR LIFE Martin E. Seligman Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  46. LEARNEDHELPLESSNESS Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  47. the giving-up reaction, the quitting response that follows from the belief that whatever you do doesn’t matter. LEARNED HELPLESSNESS Seligman, Learned Optimism Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  48. EXPLANATORYSTYLE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  49. the manner in which you habitually explain to yourself why events happen EXPLANATORY STYLE Seligman, Learned Optimism Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

  50. Your way of explaining events to yourself determines how helpless you can become, or how energized, when you encounter [life experiences] I think of your explanatory style as reflecting “the word in your heart.” Each of us carries a word in his heart, a “no” or a “yes.” EXPLANATORY STYLE Seligman, Learned Optimism Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering

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