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HOPE -FILLED ENGAGEMENT THROUGH MATTERING GRAY POEHNELL Cannexus, January 23 , 2012 graypoehnell@mac.com. 1 HOPE-FILLED ENGAGEMENT. “ CAREER STUFF” CAN SEEM HOPELESS. CAREER. LIFE. AN ALTERNATIVE APPROACH. HOPE. @2012, Gray Poehnell. HOPE -FILLED ENVIRONMENT. HOPE. resiliency.
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HOPE-FILLED ENGAGEMENTTHROUGH MATTERING GRAY POEHNELL Cannexus, January 23, 2012 graypoehnell@mac.com
1 HOPE-FILLED ENGAGEMENT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
“CAREER STUFF” CAN SEEM HOPELESS Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
CAREER LIFE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
AN ALTERNATIVEAPPROACH Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
HOPE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering @2012, Gray Poehnell
HOPE-FILLEDENVIRONMENT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
HOPE resiliency holistic inclusive positive balanced engaging mattering realistic imaginative supportive gratitude& joy trust spiritual flexible simple creative Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
2 WHAT IS MATTERING Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
beliefs people have, whether right or wrong, that they matter to someone else, that they are the object of someone else’s attention, and that others care about them and appreciate them. MATTERING, Amundson, Active Engagement Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
3 MATTERING MATTERS Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
MATTERING HOPE WILLINGNESS TO TRY Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
“what difference does it make?” “so what?”“who cares?” “that’s just the way it is” “what’s the use?” “what’s the point of trying?” “why bother?” “I can’t make a difference” I DON’T MATTER - THERE IS NO HOPE - SO WHY TRY Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
MATTER substance tangible VISIBLITY Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
MATTERING substance tangible VISIBLITY & RECOGNITION Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
MATTERING substance tangible VISIBLITY & RECOGNITION MAKING A DIFFERENCE VALUE importance significance meaning Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
INVISIBLEPEOPLE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
Liu Bolin: the Vanishing Artist Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
INVISIBLETO THEMSELVES Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
LEARNEDHELPLESSNESS/HOPELESSNESS Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
the giving-up reaction, the quitting response that follows from the belief that whatever you do doesn’t matter. LEARNED HELPLESSNESS Seligman, Learned Optimism Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
Life Experiences Negative Explanatory Style Nothing I domatters Nothing I do will ever matter Why try? Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
INVISIBLETO OTHERS Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
CHICAGO Mr. Cellophane Lyrics sung by Amos If someone stood up in a crowd And raised his voice up way out loud And waved his arm and shook his leg You'd notice him If someone in the movie show Yelled "Fire in the second row This whole place is a powder keg!” You'd notice him Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
CHICAGO Mr. Cellophane Lyrics sung by Amos And even without clucking like a hen Everyone gets noticed, now and then, Unless, of course, that personage should be Invisible, inconsequential me! Cellophane Mister Cellophane Shoulda been my name Mister Cellophane 'Cause you can look right through me Walk right by me And never know I'm there…. Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
CHICAGO Mr. Cellophane Lyrics sung by Amos … A human being's made of more than air With all that bulk, you're bound to see him there Unless that human bein' next to you Is unimpressive, undistinguished You know who... Cellophane Mister Cellophane Shoulda been my name Mister Cellophane 'Cause you can look right through me Walk right by me And never know I'm there… Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
SOME SYSTEMICCHALLENGES Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
CAREER goals work exp education Diversity? skills, etc Starting Points? Positive focused self-reflection? HOPELESS Enculturated humility? LIFE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
WE SEEWHAT MOST DON’T Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
CAREER goals work exp education Diversity? skills, etc Starting Points? Positive focused self-reflection? HOPELESS Enculturated humility? LIFE Engage people wherethey are engaged in life!! Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
CAREER goals work exp education Diversity? skills, etc Starting Points? Positive focused self-reflection? HOPE Enculturated humility? LIFE Engage people wherethey are engaged in life!! Hope-Filled Engagement
WE HELP PEOPLE TO SEEWHAT THEY CAN’T SEE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
I HAVE VALUE! WHAT I DO MAKES A DIFFERENCE! Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
4 INSIGHTFUL CROSS-TRAINING Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
BUTTERFLY EFFECT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
every decision we make and everything we do no matter how smallhas a profound effect on the world around us BUTTERFLY EFFECT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
Sensitive Dependence on Initial Conditions BUTTERFLY EFFECT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
even small and seemingly insignificant changes at the start of a process can produce significantly different results BUTTERFLY EFFECT Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
SMALL CHANGEBIG DIFFERENCE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
WHAT SMALL CHANGESCOULD YOU MAKE? Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
LEARNED OPTIMISM:HOW TO CHANGE YOUR MIND AND YOUR LIFE Martin E. Seligman Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
LEARNEDHELPLESSNESS Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
the giving-up reaction, the quitting response that follows from the belief that whatever you do doesn’t matter. LEARNED HELPLESSNESS Seligman, Learned Optimism Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
EXPLANATORYSTYLE Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
the manner in which you habitually explain to yourself why events happen EXPLANATORY STYLE Seligman, Learned Optimism Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering
Your way of explaining events to yourself determines how helpless you can become, or how energized, when you encounter [life experiences] I think of your explanatory style as reflecting “the word in your heart.” Each of us carries a word in his heart, a “no” or a “yes.” EXPLANATORY STYLE Seligman, Learned Optimism Hope-Filled Engagement through Mattering