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Project Date. Presenters: Naomi and Kate. What is Project Date?. Project Date is a date/acquaintance rape and sexual assault prevention program. We are sponsored by the University Counseling Services and Valley Trauma Center
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Project Date • Presenters: Naomi and Kate
What is Project Date? • Project Date is a date/acquaintance rape and sexual assault prevention program. • We are sponsored by the University Counseling Services and Valley Trauma Center • Our mission is to educate our campus community about issues relating to rape and sexual assault and eventually reach the goal of making CSUN a rape free environment
Presentation Courtesy • We will be talking about topics that may make you feel uncomfortable • We ask that you to keep an open mind and be respectful to anyone speaking
Exercise and Discussion • Picture a stereotypical scene where a rape would occur • Describe the rapist • Describe the victim • Describe the setting
General Rape Statistics • 1 in 3 females will be assaulted by the time they are 18 • 1 in 4 females over 18 are sexually assaulted • 1 in 6 males under 18 are sexually assaulted • 1 in 33 males over 18 are sexually assaulted • Freshmen females are at highest risk of being raped or sexually assaulted, especially during the first 6 weeks of the new academic year • 1 in 12 college men have unknowingly committed an act that meets the legal definition of rape
Sexual Assault • Spousal rape • Gang/party rape • Statutory rape • Incest • Sexual assault • Rape • Acquaintance rape • Date Rape • Child molestation
Consent • Consent is defined as when both parties act freely and voluntarily and must have knowledge of what is going on
5 Ways to Lose Consent • Seduction/Manipulation • Coercion/Intimidation • Force • Alcohol & Drugs • Asleep/Unconscious • Secret six = Mentally disabled
Acquaintance Rape Stats • About 75% of the men and at least 55% of the women involved in acquaintance rape has been drinking or taking drugs just before the attack • 84% of women who have been assaulted, knew the man that attacked them, with more than half of these assaults happening on dates • 42% of the rape victims told no one about their assaults • 41% of rape victims say that they expect to be raped again • 84% of men who committed rape said that what they did was definitely not rape • 38% of women who had been raped were 14, 15, 16 or 17 years old at the time of their assault
PERCENTAGE OF WOMEN AGREEING PERCENTAGE OF MEN AGREEING Statement In most cases when a woman was raped, she was asking for it 4 17 If a woman is going to be raped she might as well enjoy it 17 4 Women provoke rape by their appearance or behavior 59 38 A woman should be responsible for preventing her victimization in a rape 41 27 The degree of a woman’s resistance should be the major factor in determining if a rape has occurred 40 18 In order to protect the male, it should be difficult to prove that a rape has occurred 40 15 32 8 It would do some women some good to get raped
Statement PERCENTAGE AGREEING I prefer relatively small women 93.7 I like to dominate a woman 91.3 I enjoy the conquest part of sex 86.1 Some women look like they’re just asking to be raped 83.5 I get excited when a woman struggles over sex 63.5 It would be exciting to use force to subdue a woman 61.7
Percentage of Men Who Had Done It Action Committed Against Woman’s Wishes 53 Kissed her Placed hand on her knee 61 Placed hand on her breast 60 Placed hand on her thigh or crotch 58 Removed or disarranged outer clothing 42
How to Prevent Sexual Assault • Trust your feelings • Don’t allow room for misinterpretation when you say “No” • keep control of your environment • Use the buddy system • Never force anyone to have sex, even if it seems like they are“leading” you on • “No” means “NO” • Speak up if you are getting a double message from someone • Don’t assume that you know what the other person wants
Resources • CSUN Counseling Services • CSUN Department of Public Safety (http://www-admn.csun.edu/publicsafety) • Valley Trauma Center • http://www.csun.edu/vtc • 8700 Reseda Boulevard, Northridge CA 91324 • Phone: 818-772-9981 • RAINN (http://www.rainn.org) • 24-HR HOTLINE • San Fernando Valley : (818)-886-0453 • Santa Clarita Valley : (661)-253-0258