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Adult Sexuality

2. Sexuality in Adulthood. Being SingleCohabitation: Darling, Would You Be My POSSLQ?Marriage: Tying the KnotSex in the Later YearsSex and Disability. 3. Being Single. Being single is the most common lifestyle among people in their early 20s.Rates of marriage have declinedPeople are pursuing educational and career goals.People are deciding to cohabit.People are getting married later.Less social stigma for single people todayMany are not single by choiceMany single people are lonely.M288

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Adult Sexuality

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    1. Adult Sexuality

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    3. 3 Being Single Being single is the most common lifestyle among people in their early 20s. Rates of marriage have declined People are pursuing educational and career goals. People are deciding to cohabit. People are getting married later. Less social stigma for single people today Many are not single by choice Many single people are lonely. Most are well adjusted and content.

    4. 4 Being Single Most singles practice serial monogamy Becoming involved in one exclusive relationship after another A few are “swinging singles” “Friends with Benefits” Casual sexual relationships Meet sexual needs rather than romantic needs Considered temporary Some practice celibacy Complete sexual abstinence

    5. 5 Cohabitation Trends in Cohabitation POSSLQ People of Opposite Sex Sharing Living Quarters Introduced by the U.S. Bureau of the Census to refer to cohabitation Living together as though married but without legal sanction Rates have rapidly increased in recent years Generally socially accepted today Cohabitation is more prevalent among less educated and less affluent people. Children are common in cohabitating households.

    6. 6 Cohabitation Reasons for cohabitation include: Alternative to living alone Not ready for marriage Offers commitment without legal ties Economic benefits Avoid resistance of marriage by adult children Cohabitation and Later Marriage: Benefit or Risk? Some research has found a positive correlation between cohabiting before marriage and divorce.

    7. 7 Marriage Still the most common lifestyle, but the percentage of American married households is declining Why Do People Marry? Meets personal and cultural needs Legitimizes sexual relations Provides a legal sanction Offers an institution in which to raise children Restricts sexual relations Orderly transmission of wealth to next generation To satisfy desires for companionship and intimacy To be happier

    8. 8 Marriage Types of Marriage Monogamy Marriage to one person Polygamy Simultaneous marriage to more than one person Polygyny Man is married to more than one woman at the same time Polyandry Woman is married to more than one man at the same time http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4yjrDSvze0 Group Marriage Multiple males and females in a single marriage

    9. 9 Marriage Arranged marriage Families of the bride & groom arrange the union Gay marriage Marriage to someone of the same sex Many countries , Massachusetts, Connecticut, Vermont and Iowa have extended marriage rights to gay couples Others offer civil unions, domestic partnerships, or registered partnerships Younger people more supportive Many others support civil unions, but not use of the term marriage

    11. 11 Marriage Whom Do We Marry: Are Marriages Made in Heaven or in the Neighborhood? In the choice of their marriage partner, most people practice homogamy The practice of marrying people who are similar in social background and standing, and also age Some marriages also show a mating gradient Tendency for women to “marry up” (in social and economic status) and for men to “marry down”

    12. Copyright 2008 Allyn & Bacon 12 Marriage Marital Sexuality – influenced by sexual revolution Changes in duration and techniques of foreplay Foreplay lasts longer and is more varied today Changes in frequency of marital coitus Frequency has not changed significantly since the 1950s Older couples engage in coitus less frequently Frequency declines with years of marriage Changes in techniques and duration of coitus A variety of coital positions are used today Coitus lasts longer today

    13. Copyright 2008 Allyn & Bacon 13 Marriage Sexual satisfaction Orgasmic consistency is higher today for men and women. Women in their 40s are somewhat more likely to reach orgasm consistently. Emotional satisfaction is linked to sexual satisfaction.

    14. 14 Marriage Extramarital Sex People engage in extramarital sex for many reasons Fulfill sexual or nonsexual needs Revenge Curiosity and personal growth Patterns of extramarital sex Conventional adultery Kept hidden from one’s spouse Consensual adultery Engaged in openly with the knowledge and consent of one’s spouse (open marriage) Swinging (mate swapping) Both spouses share extramarital sexual experiences

    15. 15 Marriage The Internet and extramarital sex http://www.affairsclub.com/ http://www.philanderers.com/ Attitudes toward extramarital sex Only a minority of married people admit to affairs About 90% of people in the U.S. say that affairs are “always wrong” or “almost always wrong” Effects of extramarital sex Discovering a spouse’s infidelity can evoke a variety of emotional responses. The harm incurred on the marriage depends on the meaning of the affair to the individual and his or her spouse. Gender may affect how it is viewed. Discovery of infidelity may motivate the couple to try to improve their relationship Discovery may speed up dissolution of a troubled marriage

    16. 16 Marriage Divorce Between 40-50% of marriages in the US end in divorce Reasons for high divorce rates include: Relaxation of legal restrictions on divorce Increased economic independence of women People have higher expectations of marriage compared to previous generations Problems with communication and a lack of understanding are the most common reasons given for divorce Important predictors are a husband’s criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling

    17. 17 Marriage The cost of divorce A woman’s income drops by 24% and a man’s declines by about 6% Divorced and separated people have high rates of physical and mental illness and suicide. Effects on the child Divorce is harder on boys and hardest for children in the first year following the breakup Adjustment is easier when both parents maintain their parenting responsibilities and set aside their differences in the children’s presence Constant parental bickering is also stressful for children, so outcomes for children may be worse when such parents stay together

    19. 19 Marriage Blended families Stepfamilies becoming common with the increase in divorce and remarriage Many stepfamilies often disband over conflict Can be a positive situation Higher incidence of sexual abuse by stepparents

    20. 20 Sex in the Later Years Research shows that people remain sexually active as they age. Most older people report liking sex and that orgasm is an important part of sexual fulfillment Physical Changes Changes in the female Many changes result from a decline in estrogen production. Less vaginal lubrication occurs; vaginal walls lose elasticity. Orgasms may not feel as physically intense.

    21. 21 Sex in the Later Years Changes in the male Changes may result from a decline in testosterone levels. After age 50, men take progressively longer to achieve erection. Erections become less firm. Men may need more time to reach orgasm. The refractory period tends to become longer with age. Orgasms may not feel as physically intense.

    22. 22 Sex in the Later Years Patterns of Sexual Activity Frequency declines with age Broaden sexual repertoire to accommodate physical changes of aging Oral-genital stimulation Fantasy Pornography Anal stimulation Sex toys Availability of an interested & supportive partner is most determinate factor in continued activity

    23. 23 Sex and Disability Physical disabilities Multiple sclerosis Nervous system disease Symptoms vary, so sexual enjoyment may continue Cerebral palsy A muscular disorder that is caused by damage to the central nervous system (usually prior to or during birth) and characterized by spastic paralysis Does not usually impair sexual interest, capacity for orgasm, or fertility People with cerebral palsy may be socialized into an asexual role, which counseling may help to change.

    24. 24 Sex and Disability Spinal-cord injuries Many people with spinal-cord injuries can become sexually aroused and engage in coitus. Paraplegia: paralysis is located in the legs Quadriplegia: paralysis is located in all four limbs Effects on sexual response depend on the site and severity of the injury. Men’s psychogenic erections originate in upper spinal cord and reflexive erections originate in lower spinal cord. Women may lose ability to experience genital sensations or to lubricate normally, but breasts may not be affected Most women can become pregnant and bear healthy children.

    25. 25 Sex and Disability Sensory disabilities Do not directly alter genital responsiveness Sexuality may be affected, however. Relevant sex education and counseling can increase sexual awareness and the development of social skills. Other physical disabilities and impairments Arthritis: characterized by inflammation or pain in the joints May make sexual activity difficult

    26. 26 Sex and Disability Psychological Disabilities Mentally retarded people Are stereotyped as asexual, as incapable of understanding their sexuality, or as having a stronger-than-normal sex drive Most develop normal sexual needs. Most can learn about their sexuality and form rewarding and responsible intimate relationships.

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