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Learn how to stimulate a sense of belonging, enhance self-esteem, and foster self-actualization in your audience. Discover effective communication strategies and techniques for delivering both good and bad news.
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Basic Audience Need: Love and Belongedness • Do audience members feel“they belong?” • The speaker’s challenge: to stimulate a cohesive and congenial atmosphere
Basic Audience Need:Self Esteem • Does the audience believethey will grasp your material? • What enhances/diminishesself esteem in their workplace? • Consider how you can increase the audience’s confidence about their skills, knowledge and motivations
Basic Audience Need: Self Actualization (“Be, all that you can be…”) • What makes your audience feelself-actualized, professionally? • Consider how your key messagescan contribute to audience self-actualization
You can teach anythingif you believe in it andyou can understand it. Ralph Miller Coach, Iowa Basketball
Telling the Bad News • Tell it yourself • Control the message • Tell it first, tell it quick, tell the truth • Admit when you don’t know,or can’t comment • Find points of agreement • Acknowledge feelings • Yours and the audience’s
The worse the news,the more effort should gointo communicating it. Andrew S. Grove
Emotion is Key to Audience Action • Emotional tone is created via: • Vivid language • Examples • Speaker’s voice and non-verbals • Deep seated cultural changesrequire emotional investment
Principles of Audience Identification • Relate to the audience • We tend to like people who likethe same things we like • Perceived differences create imbalance and cognitive dissonance • Build upon genuine points of commonality • Avoid areas of difference
When Speaking To A Friendly Audience • The speaker can be less formal and employ: • More casual clothing • Relaxed body posture • Smiling and warm facial expressions • Humor • References to self • Vivid examples • You can safely employ almost any organizational pattern
When Speaking To A Hostile Audience • Use a slow deliberate opening • Follow a chronological pattern • Use restrained body language • Present balanced viewpoints and evidence • Avoid humor and self-reference • Use strategic, calm, language • Control time, format, and Q&A format • Employ visible back-up by experts
Speak when you are angryand you’ll make the best speechyou will ever regret.Ambrose BierceAnger is just one letter short of danger.UnknownWise men say nothingin dangerous times.John Selden
Use Effective Language • Gender neutral • Disability sensitive • Avoid jargon • Employ a conversational style—this is not the same as written language • Use shorter vs. longer sentences
The word we ismuch more powerfulthan the word they. Richard A. Moran
Employ Strategic Redundancy • Your message is just beginning to“get through” when you begin to getsick of sending it.
What I tell you three timesis true. Lewis Carroll
The T3 Principle • T1: Tell what you’ll tell them • The introduction • T2: Tell it • During the speech • T3: Tell them what you told them • The conclusion
Appeal to Different Learner Styles • Employ multiple modalities • Visual (“It’s easy to see that…”) • Auditory (“I hear you”) • Tactile (“This approach feels right”)
If you’re trying to tell someone something and you can see that they don’t “get it,” tell them a different way. Richard E. Moran
The difference between the almost right word and the right word is really a large matter -- this the difference between the lightning bug andthe lightning. Mark Twain
Never assume people will understand acronyms. Richard A. Moran
Construct Clear Messages • State a Central Thesis • This is the main idea, stated in one sentence “Feeding a baby with cleft palate requires simple but specialized feeding techniques” • Observe a hierarchical organization pattern • Present 3-5 balanced messages • Message 1 (bottles) • Message 2 (positioning the baby) • Message 3 (timing and burping)
Strive for Clarity… It’s not the most intellectual job in the world, but I do have to know the letters. Vanna White TV Game Show Host
Commit To Your Topic • The topic should be of interest to you, the speaker • Believe in what you say
Before you try to convince anybody else,be sure you are convinced, and if you cannot convince yourself, drop the subject.John H. PattersonYou can teach anything if you believe in it and you can understand it.Ralph MillerExcept in poker, bridge, and similar play-period activities, don't con anybody.Don’t con yourself either.Robert Townsend
Take Time to Prepare • All speeches require planning, good organization and evidence • There is no substitute for advance preparation
The best impromptu speeches are the ones written wellin advance. Ruth Gordon