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PAPAKI KORE No smacking for Maori. Ririki. Ririki is lifted from a famous Ngati Porou haka and means ‘young ones’. We use the term to describe Maori children and young people. Unlike the more common word tamariki, ririki is not gender specific. Te Kahui Mana Ririki Values.
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PAPAKI KORE No smacking for Maori
Ririki • Ririki is lifted from a famous Ngati Porou haka and means ‘young ones’. We use the term to describe Maori children and young people. Unlike the more common word tamariki, ririki is not gender specific.
Te Kahui Mana Ririki Values • Self Determination • Centrality of tradition • Focus on Maori strengths • Network and collaborate • Whanaungatanga • Educate and Communicate
Values shift • We don’t blame colonisation • We take responsibility for our situation • We are liberated • We have our own expertise • We can now heal
Maori women and family violence • More severe abuse • More likely to be hospitalised • More sexual, physical and emotional abuse • More abuse from people well known to them • More community violence
Maori child maltreatment • Maori children four times more likely to be hospitalised than other groups • Twice as likely to be abused as other groups • Around a third of deaths are Maori children • The child most at risk is under one year old, male and Maori.
The Context of Violence More Maori report Community violence And involved in Community violence More Maori children are murdered than other groups and the gap has widened 1 year old Maori males are most at risk of being bashed to death by a parent Danger ages 0-4 years More Maori Experience All kinds of Violence than pakeha and Pacific Islanders Maori children are 4 times more likely to be hospitalised as a result of deliberate physical harm Maori women 17-24 of age and older Receive high levels of Severe abuse and Medical treatment More Maori men and women experience violence from people well known to them
The point of change Caregiver Ririki
TheWhakapapa of Violence Smacking Killing
The alternatives to smacking • Smacking • The • Event Alternatives
GO Haere Haere ki te whanga Walk Away
STOP GO Kauaka Haere The two first steps to stop us smacking
DISTRACT Whakawarea Whakatiitaha Divert the attention
IGNORE E aro ke Don’t sweat the little things Kaua e ponana
PRAISE Whakamihia Smile Say something nice Pukukata Kia humarie
ENJOY Kia ngahau Make it fun Kia pareka
Alternatives to smacking STOP KauakaNoho puku GO Haere Haere ki te whanga DISTRACT Kia WhakawareaWhakatiitaha IGNORE E aro keKaua e ponana PRAISE Whakamihia PukukataKia humarie ENJOY Kia ngahau Kia pareka
Our beliefs about parenting • Ririki are perfect • Ririki have mana • Ririki are tapu • Ririki need warmth • Ririki need structure • Ririki need guidance • Ririki grow in to happy, caring adults
Papaki Kore No Smacking Wahi Papaki Kore No Smacking Area Marae Papaki Kore No Smacking Marae