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Nuria Rodriques Lamas

Nuria Rodriques Lamas. Buenos días a todas las personas en este Seminario . Aunque tuve poco tiempo para preparar lo que voy a decir, no creo que me equivoque mucho . Supero la vergüenza y les voy a contar algunas experiencias de mi vida . Me llamo Nuria , tengo 30 años.

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Nuria Rodriques Lamas

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  1. Nuria Rodriques Lamas Buenos días a todas las personas en este Seminario. Aunque tuve poco tiempo para preparar lo que voy a decir, no creo que me equivoque mucho. Supero la vergüenza y les voy a contar algunas experiencias de mi vida. Me llamo Nuria, tengo 30 años.

  2. Nuria Rodriques Lamas Trabajo en una cafetería y vivo con mi hija Melanie que tiene 7 años. Melanie es una de las personas más importantes de mi vida. De pequeña iba al colegio de mi barrio, tenía amigas y jugaba con ellas, pero me costaba aprender Entonces a mi madre le dijeron que tenía discapacidad.

  3. Nuria Rodriques Lamas Me hice mayor y empecé a trabajar, tuve muchos trabajos, me gustaba el trabajo de dependienta, pero tengo problemas a la hora de manejar el dinero. Así fue pasando mi vida, yo soñaba con tener una pareja, tener mi casa, tener mis niños. Tenía un novio y me quedé embarazada. Yo estaba segura de tener a mi niña. El padre no decía que no.

  4. Nuria Rodriques Lamas Y nació la niña. Eramos una familia, pero algo no funcionaba. El tenía derecho a salir y estar fuera de casa, yo tenía que cuidar la casa y la niña. Cuando Melanie tenía 2 años nos vinimos las dos a Madrid. Desde entonces cuido a mi hija sola.

  5. Nuria Rodriques Lamas Los problemas que he tenido para cuidar a Melanie, no tienen nada que ver con la discapacidad. • Si yo tuviera una casa para las dos. • Si yo tuviera un empleo que coincidiera con los horarios de mi hija en el colegio. Todo sería diferente… He pasado momentos malos, pero nunca pensé en tirar la toalla.

  6. Nuria Rodriques Lamas Dicen que la violencia es cuando te pegan. Pero yo muchas veces me he sentido como si me hubieran dado una paliza, aunque no me hayan tocado. Aunque a veces dude en como educar a mi hija, soy una buena madre. Soy una buena trabajadora, así lo dicen en todos los sitios donde trabajé. Creo que soy una mujer valiente.

  7. Nuria Rodriques Lamas Pero a las mujeres como yo la sociedad nos pone las cosas mucho más difíciles. Por eso no me gusta que siempre que hablen de mi digan la palabra discapacidad Soy como las demás mujeres hago lo mismo que ellas aunque a veces lo hago de otra manera. Muchas gracias por haberme invitado y sobre todo por haberme escuchado

  8. Nuria Rodriques Lamas Good morning to all persons in this Seminar. I have not prepared too much what I am going to say, but I don´t think I am going to get wrong too much.   I am going to leave my shyness behind And I try to tell you some experiences of my life. My name is Nuria and I am 30 years old. I work in a cafeteria and I have a daughter called Melanie who is 8 years old.We two live together in an apartment

  9. Nuria Rodriques Lamas MELANIE is one of the most important persons in my life. When I was a little girl, I attended a school at my neighborhood ; I had friends to play with, but, also, a lot of difficulties to learn. It was then when my mother was told that I had intellectual disability.

  10. Nuria Rodriques Lamas I grown up, started to work and had different jobs, I specially enjoyed working in shops but I have difficulties to handle with money . So, Time went by and I dreamed of having a couple, my own home, and my kids. I met a boy, he became my boyfriend and I got pregnant.

  11. Nuria Rodriques Lamas I was determinated to have my baby and her father did not say NO. And my daughter was born. We apparently were a family, but there was something that did not work. It seemed that he had the right to go out and have fun .Whereas I had to stay at home taking care of the baby and the housework. When Melanie was 2 y. o. I separated, and we both returned to Madrid.

  12. Nuria Rodriques Lamas Since then, I take care for her alone (*almost alone: my mother and sister live in Madrid too.) I havegone through difficulties to take care of Melanie, but they have nothing to do with disability. • .If I had a house for the two of us… (If I could easily pay a house for we two) • If I had a good job which timetable could be compatible with my daughter`s at school… • If I had someone who took care of her while I am working… …Then everything would be different!!!

  13. Nuria Rodriques Lamas Although I had gone through bad moments, but I have never thought to give up. It is said that violence means that you are hitten by somebody. However , I sometimes have the feeling of being broken, even when no one has touched me. I often have doubts about how to educate my daughter, but … Still I think that I am a “good Mother”

  14. Nuria Rodriques Lamas I am a good worker aswell (or at least )that is what people wherever I have worked have said”. I do belief that I am a brave woman. However, society makes things difficult to women like me.

  15. Nuria Rodriques Lamas That is why I don´t like the word “disability” appearing every single time that people talk about me. I am like other women; I do the same things that they/ you do, although, perhaps, in a different way. Thanks very much for your invitation and, overall for listening to me.

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