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Allan L. Beane, Ph.D. bullyfree abeane@bullyfree

Help eliminate bullying in schools by understanding the issue, being kind, and standing up against mistreatment. Learn about the Golden Rule and the impact of bullying. Take action and create positive memories by treating others with respect. -

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Allan L. Beane, Ph.D. bullyfree abeane@bullyfree

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  1. Allan L. Beane, Ph.D. www.bullyfree.com abeane@bullyfree.com

  2. Help Your School Be Bully Free by Allan L. Beane, Ph.D. abeane@bullyfree.com (270) 227-0431 www.bullyfree.com

  3. Why Am I Here? • To talk with you about a serious problem! • Your school cares about you. • Your school needs your help. • You hear it and see it when the adults don’t – it’s done in secret. www.bullyfree.com

  4. What is the problem? • Students Mistreating Students • Bullying www.bullyfree.com

  5. Your school hates bullying. • I hate bullying. • I believe you hate bullying. • You have good hearts. www.bullyfree.com

  6. I believe in the Golden Rule! What is the Golden Rule? “Treat others the way you want to be treated.” www.bullyfree.com

  7. The Bully Free Program Why Dr. Beane developed the Bully Free Program www.bullyfree.com

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  11. Forrest Gump Movie www.bullyfree.com

  12. ForrestGump(Paramount Pictures, 1994) www.bullyfree.com

  13. Forrest Gump • Memories • Mistreatment is remembered! • Apple lesson • Styrofoam plate and skewer lesson • Paper lesson www.bullyfree.com

  14. Kindness is remembered! • Would you say Jenny obeyed the GoldenRule? • Would you say Jenny had a prettyheart? • Voice of kindness • Voice of acceptance • Voice of courage www.bullyfree.com

  15. Kindness is remembered! Jenny obeyed the GoldenRule! • Voice of kindness • Voice of acceptance • Voice of courage www.bullyfree.com

  16. What kind of memories are you creating? www.bullyfree.com

  17. Why was Forrest mistreated? Important Truth! No one deserves to be mistreated. www.bullyfree.com

  18. Would you rather be an “apple person” or an “onion person?” www.bullyfree.com

  19. Onion People … • Do not have the GoldenRule inside of them. • Make others cry. • Do not make others feel good. • Do not make others feel healthy. www.bullyfree.com

  20. Apple People … • Have the GoldenRule inside of them. • A core value we should all have. • They help others feel good and feel healthy. www.bullyfree.com

  21. Definition of Bullying Bullying is when one or more powerful persons hurt someone’s body, feelings or things and/or frighten them on purpose again and again. www.bullyfree.com

  22. What does bullying look like? www.bullyfree.com

  23. Hitting, slapping, elbowing, and shouldering (slamming) • Pushing and shoving • Kicking www.bullyfree.com

  24. Pinching • Cramming someone into his/her locker • Stealing or damaging property/belongings www.bullyfree.com

  25. Holding someone so they can’t move • Name-calling • Insulting remarks and put-downs • Repeated teasing www.bullyfree.com

  26. Racist remarks • Making someone afraid • Whispering about someone behind their back • Turning someone’s best friend against them www.bullyfree.com

  27. Gossiping and spreading mean and hurtful rumors and lies about someone • Embarrassing someone - making him or her look foolish and silly • Making mean faces at someone and turning your back to someone in a mean way www.bullyfree.com

  28. Writing mean things on the wall about someone • Not letting someone play or sit with you and your friends • Mean and hurtful notes passed around or sent to someone www.bullyfree.com

  29. Promising to be mean to someone • Cyber bullying • Messages that hurt or make someone afraid • Text messages • E-mail • Internet • Etc. www.bullyfree.com

  30. Shut your eyes! • If you know someone who is mistreated every day at school, raise your hand. • If you feel like you are mistreated almost every day at school, raise your hand. www.bullyfree.com

  31. Why must bullying stop? • Makes children sick. • Makes children who watch feel bad and sad. • Sometimes bullied children hurt themselves. • Sometimes bullied children hurt others. www.bullyfree.com

  32. The movie Mask! www.bullyfree.com

  33. Mask(Universal City Studios, Inc. 1985) www.bullyfree.com

  34. Did the student in this movie obey the Golden Rule when he said, “Hey kid, why don’t you take your mask off?” www.bullyfree.com

  35. Guard Your Tongue! www.bullyfree.com

  36. Lessons about the Tongue Toothpaste lesson Banana lesson www.bullyfree.com

  37. Youcan’t take back what you said or did. • But you can: • Say, “I was wrong.” • Say, “I am sorry.” • Say, “Please forgive me.” • Be kind to the person. www.bullyfree.com

  38. Did the students who laughed at what was said to Rocky obey the Golden Rule? www.bullyfree.com

  39. Guard Your Heart! www.bullyfree.com

  40. Guard Your Heart Lessons Bottle of water lesson Coke can lesson www.bullyfree.com

  41. Bystanders are Powerful! • Don’t laugh or join in when someone is mistreated. • Don’t ignore it when someone is mistreated. www.bullyfree.com

  42. Report it! www.bullyfree.com

  43. High School Students Know What You Should Do www.bullyfree.com

  44. Stick together! • Snowflakes are powerful when they stick together. • They can stop a big truck! • They can shut down an airport! www.bullyfree.com

  45. The Good News is. . . • IF YOU ARE BEING BULLIED: • We know how to help you and we can teach you to help yourself! • IF YOU ARE A BULLY: • We know how to help you stop mistreating others! www.bullyfree.com

  46. IF YOU ARE BYSTANDER (WITNESS TO BULLYING): • You are powerful. • You don’t have to laugh. • You don’t have to ignore it. You can REPORT IT! • You and your friends can take a stand against bullying. www.bullyfree.com

  47. I challenge you!! I dare you!! www.bullyfree.com

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