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Accepting personal responsibility . By Katrina McGarry & Cara Coe. Adopting the Creator Role.
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Accepting personal responsibility By Katrina McGarry & Cara Coe
Adopting the Creator Role The essence of personal responsibility is responding wisely to life’s opportunities and challenges, rather then waiting passively for opportunities to present themselves or other people to make the choices for us.
Victims and Creators Victim Creator
When people keep doing the same thing even when it don’t work there acting as Victims When people change their beliefs and behaviors to create the best results they can they are called Creators
Responsibility and choice: The key ingredient of personal responsibility is choice.
choice Victim Creator • RESPONSE • Blaming • Complaining • Excusing • Repeating behavior • RESPONSE • Seeking solutions • Taking action • Trying something new RESULT Seldom achieves goals RESULT Often achieves goals
Mastering Creator Language Inner Guide Inner Critic Inner Defender
Inner Critic: The internal voice that criticizes us for all that goes wrong: "It's all my fault." Inner Defender: The opposite of the Inner Critic — the Inner Defender tries to protect us by deflecting criticism outward: "It's all their fault." Inner Guide: Creators resist the inner drama of the Critic and Defender; the Inner Guide objectively observes events and asks, "Am I on course or off course? If I'm off course, how can I best get back on course?"