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Finding out that mister wonderful had been cheating on her called for her to react. I told her not to react, but to retreat. That in no way was it healthy to be going on 6 dates, when she has yet to process her feelings about losing the man she was to marry in a few months. They have actually done studies about recovery time in terms of break-ups. One school of thought is that if you have been with someone 10 years, it would take you 5 years to adjust and move on in a healthy manner. {Half the time spent together.} While I don't necessarily agree, I do know that one does not move through that process in a few hours, let alone be in the right head space to be dating multiple people in the next week.
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Evil Eye of Jealousy Finding out that mister wonderful had been cheating on her called for her to react. I told her not to react, but to retreat. That in no way was it healthy to be going on 6 dates, when she has yet to process her feelings about losing the man she was to marry in a few months. They have actually done studies about recovery time in terms of break-ups. One school of thought is that if you have been with someone 10 years, it would take you 5 years to adjust and move on in a healthy manner. {Half the time spent together.} While I don't necessarily agree, I do know that one does not move through that process in a few hours, let alone be in the right head space to be dating multiple people in the next week. I always find it interesting on how we try and cheat the process. Breaking up and/or divorce is hard. It takes an emotional toll on us. We need time to evaluate, adjust and heal. This process is takes time. The same time one would honor when mending a broken bone. You simply cannot break your arm and put a cast on it and expect to move on like everything is normal. You will have limitations. You are simply not 100 percent. Yes you may get it reset or have surgery. But there is still recovery time that will be required. Why would we expect anything less? So, what is the magic number to getting over a relationship? I think that number will be very different for everybody. The real question is can we take a look and learn from this past relationship and come out better. I have said it many times over. So many people do not nurture themselves or the process after a break-up. And when we don't do the internal work, we more often than not have the same relationship over and over again only with a different person. Take a month. Take several. Do not throw yourself into another relationship. Is not fair to you. And it's really not fair to the person your dating. I have been married for quite some time. But prior to my marriage, I enjoyed a healthy social {dating} life. In my late 20's it clicked that I too was having the same relationship over and over again. I quickly made a few changes, and from that point on, my relationships took on a new meaning and greater level of intimacy. The 2 adjustments that I came up with were. https://forexprofitideas.com/the-fat-decimator-system-review/ https://forexprofitideas.com/memory-hack-review/ https://asrightasrain.co/obsession-phrases-review/ https://asrightasrain.co/language-of-desire-review/