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Understanding non verbal communication in a public setting

Understanding non verbal communication in a public setting. By: Byron Arnold . Introduction.

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Understanding non verbal communication in a public setting

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  1. Understanding non verbal communication in a public setting By: Byron Arnold

  2. Introduction • In order to communicate effectively with the opposite sex, in a public environment. One must not only understand the verbal but the non verbal communication, before approaching in a bar/ club setting which is very loud and crowded. Sometimes it hard to figure out if that person is really in to you or the person behind you.

  3. Responsiveness • Liking • Power or control • Haptics • Territoriality • Kinesics • Artifacts • Proximity and Personal Space • Territoriality • Paralanguage • Physical Appearance Forms of non verbal communication.(1) (Wood, 2013)

  4. Eyebrow flash • Fixate glance • Hair flip • Head raise • Head nod • Laugh • Lip lick • Neck presentation • Smile • Become more open with the conversation. • A slight touch Women non verbal behaviors to show interest in opposite sex(2) (Berman, 2012) (Fisher, 2010)

  5. He looks you up and down slowly. • Leans his upper body towards you. • Erect stance, chest out, shoulders back, stomach in. • His pupils dilate • Smiles at you. • You are his sole focus of attention of the room • He touches himself anywhere, while looking at the opposite sex (brushes his jacket, fixes his hair etc.) • He looks at the woman and his eyebrows go up (indicates interest) Men's non verbal behaviors to show interest in the opposite sex(2) (Berman, 2012)

  6. Men: • A clean shave • Nice pair of jeans • A button up shirt • Blazer • Shoes Women: • A new hair do • Nails done • Form fitting dress • Matching color heels Getting ready for a out for a night on the townone might wear to gain the attention of the gender their seeking.

  7. Your with your group of friends having a good time. You glance over and the individual you been kind of looking at, you both look at each other at the same time they may give you a smile maybe a wink. • With this little non verbal information you decide to approach them and get to know them, you talk for a while and you hit it off with them. Using non verbal communication to show the opposite sex your interested.

  8. Looking away, maybe at somebody they find more interesting • Yawning while the person is talking • Arms crossed • Texting on telephone Using non verbal communication to show the opposite sex your uninterested. (Fisher, 2010)

  9. Misunderstandings • Lack of interest • Painful rejection • Time wasted • Altercation (if your approaching another person’s love interest) • Confusion Lack of non verbal information can lead to.

  10. Learning how to read peoples non verbal language is the key when interacting with people in a public or bar setting. Both genders need to be aware of these cues being it’s only a small window of time to actually get to know about somebody in this environment. Conclusion

  11. (1)Wood, J. (2013). Gendered lives. (10 ed., p. 140). Wadsworth. • (2) Berman, J. (2012). Retrieved from http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/01/dating-secrets-body-language-dos-and-donts-how-to-tell-if-hes-interested/ • Fisher, M. (2010). Men's persepective on women's non verbal cues of sexual interest. Undergraduate Publication • All pictures were provided by Google images Sources:

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