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Harmful Relationships. Need to know. Relationship -is a connection a person has with another person. Healthful relationship - is a relationship that promotes self respect, encourages productivity and health, and is free of violence and drug misuse and abuse.
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Need to know Relationship-is a connection a person has with another person. Healthful relationship- is a relationship that promotes self respect, encourages productivity and health, and is free of violence and drug misuse and abuse. Harmful relationship- is a relationship that damages self-respect, interferes with productivity and health, or includes violence or drug misuse and abuse.
The people pleaser This type of person seeks everyone's approval. A people pleaser will do drugs and other negative things just to gain attention from others.
THE ENABLER • This type of person supports bad behavior and excuses the behavior as well. • The enabler may not get the attention, affection, and support they need, so they affect others in a negative way.
THE CLINGER • This type of person is needy and dependent on another person. • The person depends on the partner to demonstrate affection or attention and will never be satisfied on the quality the clinger receives. • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=392I_cnVbBI
THE FIXER • This type of person tries to fix everyone's problem that are not with in their responsibility. • Amy my girlfriends friend is a good example. • Healthy people do not need others to fix their problems because they fix their own.
THE DISTANCER • This type of person does not get emotionally involved and tries to stay active to avoid the other partner. • For example, the office dad who never has time for his family.
THE CONTROLLER • The controller always has to control every situation in other words monopolize their partners life.
THE CENTER • This individual is self centered and everything revolves around themselves. • Me, me, me • Like a child’s perspective of life.
THE ABUSER • This type of person may physically or verbally hurt someone. • This person may act gentle around others and act violent when alone.
THE LIAR • A person who is dishonest in a relationship.
THE PROMIS BREAKER • Always breaks his promises and is never reliable.
What to do about harmful relationships • Evaluate- examine the relationship • Recognize when you should end the relationship • Find ways to change harmful behaviors • Talk to people you trust about the relationship • Discuss honestly with the person your in a relationship about feelings and concerns
References • Youtube.com(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=392I_cnVbBI) • Google.images.com • Meeks, L., Heit, P, & Page, R. (2011). Comprehensive School Health Education: Totally Awesome • Strategies for Teaching Health (7th ed.). New York: McGraw-Hill.