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to Lehigh and the USA. International Orientation Fall 2012. Andrew – Malaysia Dash – Malaysia Ciara – china Brolin – india Palis – Thailand Aleks – Montenegro Cristina – mexico Thomas – canada / usa Aftan – usa Jeanne – china/ usa.
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to Lehigh and the USA International Orientation Fall 2012 Andrew – Malaysia Dash – Malaysia Ciara – china Brolin– india Palis– Thailand Aleks – Montenegro Cristina –mexico Thomas – canada/usa Aftan – usa Jeanne – china/usa
If you are meeting a professor at 10:10am, what time do you actually arrive? • Exactly on time at 10:10am • 5-10 minutes early • 10-20 minutes early • 10-20 minutes late
Concept of Time America has a very fast paced lifestyle.
Tip 1 : It’s all about TIME. • Punctuality • Being on time is always respected. • If you are going to be late, inform first. • Time Management • College is fun, but don’t get too carried away. • Spend your time wisely. (Planner, Reminder, Notes and etc. ) • Personal Responsibility • Everything is graded. Take everything seriously. • Aware of what’s professors mention in class.
You meet someone you want to be friends with, what do you do? • Invite them to Rathbone for lunch. • Add them on Facebook. • Make small talk during class. • Ask them for his or her phone number
Tip 2 : Friendliness ≠ Friendship • Americans are typically very friendly – • However, this friendliness does not necessarily have to become deep personal friendships • “Let’s get coffee sometime” or “let’s do lunch” What do you think?
Tip 3 : Communication is king • Eye Contact • Body Language • Questions • In a classroom – asking question is often encouraged; it’s a sign of interest in the subject. • What you generally SHOULD NOT directly ask an American? • Money – it is very impolite to ask how much one earns • Religion – a personal choice -- some feel this is private • Political Affiliation – some Americans can be defensive if you talk politics
Tip 3 : Communication is king • Direct: one meaning, used to convey information quickly • Report and academic writing. • Some situations with pressure of time or need: • Professor on the way to a meeting • Someone is making you feel uncomfortable • Indirect: an alternative meaning • Are you busy?(favor, question, or advice) • I am not a fan of cheesecake (I don’t like cheesecake) • Do you have an extra pen?(I need a pen) • How are you doing? (Hi) • No standard: contextual, personality, regional and relationship differences
Tip 3 : Communication is king Addressing someone - If you are unsure of what to call someone, it's best to use a formal address or simply ask, What should I call you? Small talk - Informal type of communication Americans can talk too fast– Don’t feel shy to ask them to repeat or Pardon or Could you please slow down?
Tip 4 : Don’t get the HUMOR. It’s okay. • Americans love to have a great sense of humor • They sometimes use humor to make their point • Humor relies on shared experiences and culture • Sarcasm • When pigs fly! • Nice weather we’re having! • Misunderstanding -- If you don’t understand someone’s humor and are not sure what he/she is trying to say, don’t be afraid to ask ☺ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=raVqiQhU-Fw
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Tip 5 : Understanding Personal Space • Personal Space • No means No • Refusal • It’s okay to say NO. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGVSIkEi3mM
Tip 7 : Difficult Roommates • Difficult Roommates issue • Examples How to deal with them? • Be straightforward to your roommates. • Be polite (Please rule) but be firm (Your purpose). • Know your options – to move or not to move • Have a peaceful relationship
You go out for dinner, how much % tip is normal for you leave? • 0% • 5-10% • 10-20% • 50%
Tip 8 : Food & Money in US • Ordering at Restaurant : DO NOT GIVE ORDERS • Being polite is nice, use indirect speech (E.g.: “Can I have…?” Instead of “Get me….”) • Tipping • (15-18%) Sit Down Restaurants or Delivery • Tables of 6 or more: tips is automatic -- don’t tip in fast food or buffet places • Money matters • Bethlehem Passport
What is this called? • Soda • Pop • Soft Drink • Coke
What is this called? • Sub • Sandwich • Hoagie • Hero
Where to eat off campus? Check inside your Passport to Bethlehem: -Go to the restaurant/business -Get a discount -Collect Stickers inside the passport -Receive a mystery prize for 8 stickers -First 3 to finish, receive a gift certificate -Show your passport to ISS when you finish
Tip 8 : Food & Money in US • Money • Quarter = 25 cents • Nickel = 5 cents • Dime = 10 cents • Penny = 1 cent
Tip 9 : Diversity of the country REGION , CHACTERISTICS, ACCENTS East: hurry, rush, more businesslike compared to other places; South: slower pace, tradition, hospitality Midwesterners: practical, and a bit more traditional, warm and open Westerners: very independent and individualistic; West Coast: relaxed and informal NOTE: These are broad description and will not apply to every person from a particular region http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jOltf7rS-mM
Tip 10 : Travelling Transportation Safety Keep your ID with you all the time
Cities close to Bethlehem New York City Philadelphia Megabus Transbridgelines Bieber Bieber Washington DC BETHLEHEM NYC
Airports close by: Lehigh Valley International Airport (ABE) 20 mins from Lehigh – better to take a cab or drive there Newark 1.5 to 2 hours, depending on traffic –Transbridgelines has regular buses JFK 3 to 5 hours, depending on traffic – Transbridgelines has 2 buses/day LaGuardia Bethlehem to PABT through Transbridgelines, you can get shuttles to airport from there
Tip 6 : Get involved on campus activities • Volunteers opportunities: Pay attention to International Office Email Notification • Activities : • Becky’s Drive In Movie Theater • Jersey Shore • Moravian Museum • Martin Guitar Factory • NYC Trip/Shopping Trip • International Bazaar • Make your college life fun. • RSVP – Please respond to the email (ASAP)
Tips 7 : Ask Officers at OISS if you need help They are your best friends in here. Greet them politely Say thank you
Things to do at Lehigh • Lehigh vs. Lafayette • Football Game Nov. 17th @ Lafayette • Football season starts September 1st • Basketball season starts in February Clutch
Taylor Gym • Swimming Pool • Raquet Courts • Basketball Courts • Dance Studio • Fitness Center • Monday - Thursday: 6:30 am - 11:00 pm • Friday: 6:30am - 10:00 pm • Saturday: 10:00 am - 8:00 pm • Sunday: 12:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Zoellner Arts Center Art Galleries Music Performances Theatre Borrow a room to practice your instrument! http://zoellner.cas2.lehigh.edu/
Association of International Students Great way to stay in touch with your international friends Check our Facebook page for upcoming events: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2200126219/
Fall 2012 Events Preview Club Fair, 27 August, UC Lawn, 4pm – 6pm Global Union Open House, 29 August, Coxe Hall, 4pm-6pm Resume Workshop, 30 August, 4:10pm-5:00pm “I Know Who You Are, I Saw What You Did” a presentation on Internet Privacy and Facebook Nation by Lori Andrews, 30 August, Sinclair Auditorium, 7:00pm Farmer’s Market, Thursdays , Campus Square, 11:00am-3:00pm Katherine McPhee, 20 October, Zoellner Arts Center Lehigh Club of Northern New Jersey Day of Volunteering, 3 November, Alumni Association, 8:00am-4:00pm Annual Turkey Trot, 15 November, 4:30pm ISS -- http://www.lehigh.edu/oiss/events.html Study Abroad -- http://www.lehigh.edu/~incis/