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Creating a Family Communication Plan. Comel Rooms. Objectives. Recognize different concerns about deployment that may affect communication. Identify and determine the pros and cons of different communication options available during deployment.
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Creating a Family Communication Plan Comel Rooms
Objectives • Recognize different concerns about deployment that may affect communication. • Identify and determine the pros and cons of different communication options available during deployment. • Recognize the similarity and conflict of communication goals and needs during deployment. • Develop a family communication plan for deployment. 2
The Service Member • Increased focus on the military mission may lead to some withdrawal from the family • Concerned about how to stay connected with everyone back home & maintain a presence in their lives • Worried about loneliness • Worried about the family left behind – Who will meet my responsibilities? • Worried about coming home – How will things be different? 5
The Partner at Home • Worried about the deployed partner • Is he/she safe? • What will it be like when he/she comes back? • Concerns about everyday challenges • Managing increased responsibilities: How to get everything done? • Worries about money • Concerns about emotional challenges • Feelings of loneliness & abandonment • Being everything to everyone: Is there enough energy and patience to go around? 6
Children Older kids… • May worry a lot about the safety of the deployed parent • May need to assume more responsibilities around the house and with the family, and might feel stressed out or resentful about this Younger kids… • Might have trouble remembering the deployed parent • Might react to changes in the family by becoming more clingy and demanding • Might need more patience and reassurance from the remaining parent than s/he is able to provide 7
Communication During Deployment What are the Options? 9
Email 11
Communication During Deployment • Everyone’s Goal: Keep in Touch • Goal Conflicts: Agreeing to Disagree • Miscommunication: Putting out Fires 15
Develop a Family Communication Plan Each family member should be able to answer: • What are my goals? • What do I need to do to respect other family member’s goals? • What specific ways will I use to communicate? • Type of communication method? • How often? • What will we communicate about? • What will my back up plan be? • How will I handle communication problems? 18
Objectives • Recognize different concerns about deployment that may affect communication. • Identify and determine the pros and cons of different communication options available during deployment. • Recognize the similarity and conflict of communication goals and needs during deployment. • Develop a family communication plan for deployment. 19
Creating a Family Communication Plan Comel Rooms