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Intimacy Workshop . Part 3: Questions and Answers. Questions. A Taste of Olam Habah. Shabbos Oneg climax Relations on shabbos. Intimacy . Separate from sexuality Love languages (Gary Chapman) Acts of service Physical touch Words of appreciation Gifts Quality time
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Intimacy Workshop Part 3: Questions and Answers
A Taste of OlamHabah • Shabbos • Oneg • climax • Relations on shabbos
Intimacy • Separate from sexuality Love languages (Gary Chapman) • Acts of service • Physical touch • Words of appreciation • Gifts • Quality time • http://www.5lovelanguages.com/resources/books/
HItchadshut • Our first mitzvah as a nation (Shemot 12:2) • Pregnancy • Post-partum/Nursing • Exhausted • Distant • Angry/Resentful • Peri-menapausal • ED • Depression • Diabetes/high blood pressure/obesity/pain
Mitzvah onah • Onah • Answer • Responsibility • Moredes/t?
Prioritize • Mitzvatonah • It’s a mitzvah! • Time • Money • Effort • Thought • Planning
Preparation • Shabbat and Intimacy • Clear schedule: Set aside the time • Procure supplies: Whatever you don’t have that you will need or want to make the experience how you want it to be • Prepare environment: clean, pretty, inviting • Create mood: flowers, candles, wine, words
Preparation 2 • Hachanal’mitzvah • Flirting • Tenderness • Appreciation • Notes • Cooking • Cleaning • Disconnect to connect • Using technology
Learn more • Communication • Self • Partner • Options Shared goals!
Help • Ricky’s Drug Store in NY • lubricants • awomanstouch.com • DodsonandRoss.com (be careful!!!) • Riteaid.com • Sexual well-being
Review • Vital • Mitzvah • Barometer and fountain • Kedushah • A taste of olamhabah • Learn more together • Preparation is a good investment • It’s okay to be who you are • You can (and will need to) make yourself new