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Dear Parents, I would personally like to thank you for your participation and support of the Venice High Athletic Department. Our main goal is to provide an atmosphere where your son or daughter can have fun, learn the valuable lessons interscholastic athletics can teach and help them achieve their academic and athletic potential. Parents play a critical role in this process. It is important that we all work together to contribute to a positive and supportive atmosphere in which your athletes learn, compete, and grow as individuals within a team environment. Within interscholastic athletics, success is defined as not only seeing your son or daughter develop their athletic skills but also to develop in areas of self-esteem, self-discipline, leadership, citizenship, perseverance, goal setting, etc., to mention just a few of the many lessons learned through competitive athletics. While winning is the objective for each and every game; and winning a championship is always a worthy goal to begin each season, please keep in mind that these goals are secondary, and not the primary goals of interscholastic athletics. It is also important to keep in mind that college scholarships , while also desirable goals , are reserved for less than 1 percent of all high school athletes. The goal is to get ready for life for when the athletic career ends, which it does for everyone at some point. I hope you take the time to review the presentation, the video clips and the recommended resources provided . I believe it will be extremely useful to you as you guide your son and daughter through this exciting and unique phase in their lives. Remember, no influence or single factor determines the future success of your child more than you. I encourage you to educate yourself on how to be the best coach to your athlete as you can. Please let me know if I can be of assistance in any way.Thanks again for your support, Rich McKeonAthletic Director
VENICE ATHLETICS MISSION STATEMENT The mission of the athletic program is to develop the student-athlete academically, physically, emotionally and socially by pursuing excellence within a values-based athletic program dedicated to the ideals of Pursuing Victory with Honor.
VENICE ATHLETICS VISION STATEMENT To pursue academic and athletic excellence by offering the highest quality sports programs, facilities, and coaches through a commitment to a values-based philosophy of sport which emphasizes the ideals achieved through the adherence of the principals of PursuingVictory with Honor.
WE BELIEVE….. Students are our highest priority The dignity, worth and self-esteem of participants should be paramount in all athletic activities The most important result of competition is the development of life-long values and skills The athletic program is an integral part of the high school experience High school athletics should be fun and rewarding Athletic programs are most beneficial when they are competitive Winning is an attitude resulting from optimum preparations, concentrated effort, and a deep commitment to excel Well-designed athletic programs promote community and school pride Open communication and mutual respect among coaches, parents, and athletes provide the foundation of a successful athletic program Morale, satisfaction, and performance are enhanced when athletes work together as a team Well qualified coaches and program administrators are important components in a successful athletic program Positive parent support and involvement enhance student growth and program quality
PARENT EXPECTATIONS It is very difficult to accept when your child is not playing as much as you may hope. Coaches are teachers. They make judgment decisions based on what they believe to be best for all students involved. As you have seen from the list on the previous page, certain things can and should be discussed with the coach. Other things, such as the ones listed below, must be left to the professional judgment of the coach.
Communication that parents, guardians, and student/athletes should expect from your coach: • Philosophy of the coach • Expectations the coach has for your student/athlete and the team • Location and times of all practices and games • Team requirements, special equipment, out of season expectations • Procedures to follow should the student/athlete be injured during participation
STEP ONE If there is a problem, have your son/daughter talk to the coach, one-on-one. It’s a part of growing up.
If this does not resolve the problem, parents should: • Call the school and request a returned call or a face-to-face meeting with the coach. • Coaches will make time available in their day to meet with students and parents
PARENTING THE STUDENT ATHLETE VIDEO http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZXfxxTLyUE PLEASE WATCH THIS VIDEO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PARENTS MUST NOT: 1. Confront the coach before/after practice 2. Confront the coach before/after a game Coaches are teachers. A parent would not walk into a classroom during class time and yell at the teacher about a poor grade, so please do not confront the coach in a public setting. There are proper ways to communicate and have your concerns addressed. Practices and games are highly emotional times for everyone involved; players, coaches, and parents. Meetings and concerns do not get resolved during these emotional times.
APPROPRIATE CONCERNS TO DISCUSS WITH A COACH: • Treatment of your student/athlete, mentally or physically • Ways to help your student/athlete to improve • Concerns that involve your student/athlete only
ISSUES NOT APROPRIATE TO DISCUSS WITH THE COACH: • Playing Time • Team strategy • Play calling • Other student-athletes
What to do if the meeting with the coach did not provide satisfactory resolution: Call the school Athletic Director. The Athletic Director will attempt to mediate a resolution.
SPECTATOR SPORTSMANSHIP CODE OF CONDUCT
All spectators must conduct themselves in a positive manner, reflecting sportsmanship and the educational values of interscholastic athletics. • Adult spectators should set an example for good sportsmanship for their children to follow. • All cheering must be positive in nature. • Spectators should recognize and appreciate skill and performance regardless of affiliation. • Spectators should know, understand and respect the rules of the contest. • Spectators must remain in designated areas for the safety and enjoyment of the game for all.
SPECTATOR RULES continued…. • Spectators must respect the coaches, referees, trainers, opponents. Spectators should not criticize coaches, referees, opponents or fans by word of mouth or gestures. • Spectators may not give instruction from the sidelines. • Spectators should refrain from abusive or profane language directed towards anyone connected with the game. Harassment in any form will not be tolerated. • Refrain from bringing snacks or drinks to your son or daughter during the athletic contest.
During ALL ATHLETIC EVENTS spectators or parents must remain in the bleachers.
During softball or baseball games, spectators are to remain in the bleacher area, and at least 10 feet from the dugout and playing area. Spectators are not permitted to stand behind or next to the backstop or dugouts.
PLEASE KEEP IN MIND…… Purchasing a ticket, or attending a game, does not include the right to act in an unsportsmanlike manner and may result in being asked to leave the athletic event.
REMEMBER… THE PLAYERS PLAY, THE COACHES COACH, THE OFFICIALS OFFICATE AND THE FANS CHEER FOR THEIR TEAMS!!
GREAT RESOURCES FOR PARENTS: • Responsible Sports http://www.responsiblesports.com/responsible_sport_parenting/default.aspx • POSITIVE COACHING ALLIANCE http://www.positivecoach.org
WHAT DOES YOUR SON OR DAUGHTER WANTS FROM YOU??? WATCH THIS SHORT VIDEO TO FIND OUT: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ho6ae09ZcWQ
RESPONSIBLE SPORTS PARENTING http://www.responsiblesports.com AN EXTREMELY VALUABLE WEBSITE FOR PARENTS AND COACHES CHALLENGE: TAKE THE PARENTING QUIZ @ http://www.responsiblesports.com/responsible_sport_parenting/responsible_sport_parenting_quiz.aspx
VENICE ATHLETICS WEBISTE PARENT PAGE WEEKLY PARENTING TIP FROM RESPONSIBLE SPORTS ALL ATHLETIC FORM LINKS AND FILES SCHEDULES VIDEO CLIPS CORE COURSE GPA
CORECOURSEGPA.COM http://WWW.CORECOURSEGPA.COM PLEASE MAKE SURE YOUR SON OR DAUGHTER HAS REGISTERED GETTING READY FOR COLLEGE BEGINS IN THE 9TH GRADE
JOHN GRUDEN onCORECOURSEGPA.COM http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aCkxgqMIKMc
Go to http//:www.CoreCourseGPA.com 2. Click on “New Free Member Account” in the upper left cornerand enter the School ID and School Code: Students/Parents: School ID: 051828 School Code: 751810599 3. Click “Continue.” 4. Fill in the appropriate fields in the CreateNew Student Account form. **Remember to write down the new Member Name and Password you have created** • Click “Submit.” Congratulations! You have successfully created your CoreCourseGPA.com member account.
ACADEMICS IN THE RECRUITING PROCESS http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IIsyMHLzpSA&feature=relmfu • THE PROCESS STARTS YOUR FRESHMAN YEAR • GOOD GRADES INCREASE OPTIONS
Jack Renkensand RECRUITING REALITIES HTTP://www.recruitingrealities.com
RECRUITING REALITIES • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vA_VvQJgYCM
RECRUITING REALITESPARENT RULES http://www.recruitingrealities.com/parentrules.html
SCOUTING ORGANIZATIONS http://www.berecruited.com http://www.ncsasports.org/about-ncsa Do your homework-check out ALL SERVICES thoroughly These can be beneficial for some athletes and parents
THE MENTAL GAME THE DIFFERENCE MAKER
HEADS UP BASEBALL/ PLAYING THE GAME ONE PITCH AT A TIME BY Ken Ravizza BEST MENTAL GAME BOOK ON BASEBALL OUT THERE? Ravizza is a leading authority on providing stress management skills and coping strategies, as well as mental skills training for Peak Performance. He has worked with some of the best athletes and coaches in the world having served as a consultant to numerous professional sports organizations including the New York Jets, Los Angeles Angels of Anaheim, Los Angeles Dodgers, Los Angeles Galaxy, and the Toronto Argonauts.
KEN RAVIZZA http://baseballconfidence.com/blog/2009/07/baseball-success-secrets-revealed-featuring-ken-ravizza/
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Booster Club What is it? The Venice High School Booster Club is a non-profit organization involved in supporting school activities through scholarships, awards, and financial contributions. Its membership consists of parents, faculty, alumni, and friends who are concerned with the recognition, achievement, and expansion of learning opportunities for Venice High students. WE ENCOURAGE ALL PARENTS TO JOIN, HELP AND SUPPORT OUT BOOSTER CLUB
Jack Renkens…. “A parent’s coaching job is the toughest one of all and takes a lot of effort. Sometimes, in an effort to help your child, your best intentions can end up being counter productive. Applying the Rules for Parents will go a long way to fostering an environment your child can use to enjoy and excel in their sport.”
Thanks for watching Rich McKeon Athletic Director 310-577-4214