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Wild at Heart. Chapter 1. Society & Church Want. Be a “good boy”; behave; a “nice guy” “Dutiful” Separated from his heart. p 7. The Invitation. “Come & live out what I meant you to be”. God meant something when he meant YOU! Don’t ask: “What do we need?” Ask:
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Wild at Heart Chapter 1
Society & Church Want.... • Be a “good boy”; behave; a “nice guy” • “Dutiful” • Separated from his heart p 7
The Invitation • “Come & live out what I meant you to be”. • God meant something when he meant YOU! • Don’t ask: “What do we need?” • Ask: • “What makes you come alive?” • “What stirs your heart” p 8
A Battle to Fight An Adventure to Live A Beauty to Rescue Meaningful legacy Challenge; Uncertainty Love of your life Men want...
Want Powerful Dangerous To be reckoned with Versus weak timid a push-over Battle to Fight Exodus 15:3 An Image of God “The Lord is a warrior; the Lord is His name.” p 10
An Adventure to Live • Skiing: Point & go • Boys take sled down the stairs • Boys rappelling out upstairs window • Keys: • Danger & uncertainty • Exploration & new experiences • Destruction & change p 12
We Want a Challenge • We want to be good at something hard • Outdoors: Hiking, hunting, rafting • Career: Mgt, sales, advancement, recognition • Sports: Golf, bowling, running • Faith: ______________ • If man has lost this desire, he doesn’t know if he has what it takes & believes he will fail the test.So he decides not to try. p 13
A Beauty to Rescue: The Reason to Fight • Nothing is as inspiring as a beautiful woman • Charge the castle; slay giant; hit home run • Man wants to be a hero to someone • Someone to fight for Nehemiah to defending wall-less Jerusalem:“Don’t be afraid...fight for your brothers, sons, daughters, wives & homes”Lord of the Rings: The Shire p 15
The Feminine Heart (1) • Maybe: A battle to fight • Always: Wants to be fought for • Wants to be wanted & pursued • “I just want to be a priority to someone” p 16
The Feminine Heart (2) • Wants an Adventure to Share • Wants to be strong & part of an adventure • Manly mistake: Woman is the adventure. • She wants to be caught up in something greater than herself.
The Feminine Heart (3) • A Beauty to Unveil • Be the beauty & be delighted in • Daughter’s “twirling skirts” • “Do you see me? • Are you captivated?” p 17
World tells Women to be... • Tough, efficient & independent • What is a Christian woman? Tired • Church: “Be a good servant” • No one is fighting for her heart • No grand adventure to be swept up inEvery woman doubts if she has a beauty to unveil.
I’d rather be... • a “real sweet guy” • Dangerous, in a really good way Who would your wife rather have as a mate?
(Women) I’d rather be... • tireless worker • captivating woman
What if?.... these deep desires are telling us the lives we were meant to live.
Man must know... • He is powerful • Has what it takes Woman: • She is beautiful • Worth fighting for “I don’t know when I died...but I feel like I’m just using up oxygen.” p 18
This Study Recovery/release of a man’s heart, passion & true nature given by God.
If you are going to:... • Know who you are as a man • Find a life worth living • love a woman deeply • not pass your confusion on to your kids Then: You must get your heart back.
Where we’re going Head up into the high country of the soul, the wild and uncharted regions, and track down that elusive prey: Your Heart