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EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION. AGENDA. What is communication Filters in communication Effective communication Barriers to communication Listening vs Hearing Communication styles Communication with DISC styles. COMMUNICATION.

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EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

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  1. EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

  2. AGENDA • What is communication • Filters in communication • Effective communication • Barriers to communication • Listening vs Hearing • Communication styles • Communication with DISC styles

  3. COMMUNICATION • We all must use a variety of communication techniques to both understand and understood. • and who is better In speech than He who [says: "My Lord is Allâh (believes In his Oneness)," and Then stands Straight (acts upon his Order), and] invites (men) to Allâh's (Islâmic Monotheism), and does righteous deeds, and says: "I am one of the Muslims.“41VS33

  4. COMMUNICATION O You who believe! keep Your duty to Allâh and fear him, and speak (Always) the truth. He will direct You to do righteous good deeds and will forgive You Your sins. and Whosoever obeys Allâh and his Messenger (Sal-Allaahu 'alayheWaSallam) He has indeed achieved a great achievement (i.e. He will be saved from the Hell-fire and made to enter Paradise). Ahzab vs 70-71 SuratulHujurat vs 6

  5. COMMUNICATION “Thesinglebiggestproblemin communication is the illusion that it has taken place” What if communication werenot possible? Frustration and Chaos!

  6. ACTIVITY Think of a recent example in which you were involved in a miscommunication and answer the following questions: 1. Why did the miscommunication occur? 2. What impact did it have? 3. If you had a chance to do it over again, what specifically would you do differently?

  7. Do You Know? • An average person spends 50% of his or her time communicating? • Business success is 85% dependent on effective communication and interpersonal skills? • 45% of time spent communicating is listening? • Writing represents 9% of communication time? • 25% of all workplace mistakes are the result of poor communication? • A remarkable 75% of communication is non-verbal?

  8. What is Communication? QUIZ: 1, 2, NEITHER, BOTH • A process where information is exchanged between at least two people resulting in a common understanding 2. The successful transfer of information in such a way that is received, understood and correctly acted upon

  9. Goals of Communication • To change behavior • To get action • To persuade • To ensure understanding

  10. Types of Communication • Mass Communication • One-to-One Communication • One-to-Group Communication • Verbal Communication • Non-Verbal Communication

  11. Component of Communication • Verbal Communication • Vocal communication • Non-verbal communication

  12. Filters in Communication • Filters’representourperceptionsof everythingweencounterandare basedonthesumtotal of whoweare • Filters impact: • How we see others, • How we Interpret situations • How we act and feel • “We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are.”

  13. Filters

  14. Features of Effective Communication • Active Listening • Eye contact • Posture • Simple language • Questioning skills

  15. Barriers to Communication

  16. Listening VS Hearing • Hearing – Physical process, natural, passive • Listening – - Physical as well as mental process, active, • - learned process, a skill • Listening is hard. You must choose to participate in the process of listening.

  17. Active Listening The process of recognizing, understanding, and accurately interpreting communicated messages and responding to spoken and/or nonverbal messages. • Steps to Effective Listening: - Hearing, - Interpretation (clear your mind) • Evaluation - Respond (Give Verbal and non Verbal acknowledgement) • Make eye contact - Adjust your body posture • Avoid distracting behaviours (you can’t multitask)

  18. Roadblocks to Active Listening • Emotional Interference • Defensiveness • Hearing only facts and not feelings • Not Seeking clarification • Hearing what is expected instead of what is said • The ‘halo’ effect (i.e., the tendency for something to be influenced by a loosely associated factor) • Automatic dismissal (e.g., “We’ve never done it that way before”) • Resistance to change

  19. Communication Variables • Differences between sender and receiver - Attitudes - Information levels - Communication skills - Social systems - Sensory channel • Differences in previous experiences • Cultural differences • Differences in communication styles

  20. Communication Styles

  21. Dominant Style • Value control. • Driven by a strong inner need to lead/achieve results. • Take-charge people who seek to reach goals. • Focus on results rather than process. • Tend to downplay feelings and emotions. • Sometimes viewed as “unfeeling

  22. Influence Style • Crave action and an energetic pace. • Seek opportunities to “shine” or to be “on stage.” • Relationships take priority over tasks. • Focus is on outcomes. • Try to influence others with optimism and friendliness. • Recognition and approval are strong motivators

  23. Steadiness Style… • Easy going and relationship focused. • Value security. • Work to maintain stable relationships/environments. • Find change difficult. • Reliable and good at follow- through. • Appreciate respect from others. • Value others’ respect of them

  24. Conscientious • Goal-oriented; driven to be precise and controlled. • Can seem uncomfortable at expressing or dealing with emotions. • Logical thinkers who value accuracy and organization. • Like to think through tasks before starting. • Feel a need to do things themselves. • Perfectionists and strong desire for things to be “right

  25. Think About it… When we work with people whose natural communication style is different than our own, what are the potential conflicts?

  26. Communicating with Dominance StylesFocus on the Fact First! So you … • support, guide, maintain self esteem • display reasoning • provide concise data • agree on goal, then get out of the way • allow them to “do their own thing” • modify workload focus • compliment on achievements • set parameters, let them take lead • argue with facts, not emotion Dominance Styles… • are concerned with being #1 • think logically • want facts and highlights • strive for results • like changes • prefer to delegate • want notice of accomplishments • need to be in charge • reflect a tendency toward conflict

  27. Communicating with Influence StylesFocus on the Relationship First! So you … • show them you admire/like them • be optimistic/upbeat setting • support their feelings • focus on big picture • interact/participate with them • vary routine • compliment them often • do it together • avoid arguing on a personal basis • keep up a fast, lively pace • provide positive feedback Influence Styles… • are concerned with approval • seek enthusiastic situations • think emotionally • want general expectations • need contact with people • like change/innovation • want others to notice them • need help getting organized • dislike conflict • like action and stimulation • want feedback that they look good

  28. Communicating with Steadiness StylesFocus on the Relationship First! So you … • show how to minimize risk • show reasoning • provide data, proof • demonstrate personal interest • walk through instructions • compliment steady follow-thru • give personal assurances • act non-aggressively • allow them to support others • provide friendly atmosphere • provide cooperative group • acknowledge their help/manner Steadiness Styles… • are concerned with stability • think logically • want documentation/facts • like personal involvement • need step-by-step sequence • want notice of perseverance • avoid risks/changes • dislike conflict • accommodate others • like calmness/peace • enjoy teamwork • want to be appreciated

  29. Communicating with Conscientious StylesFocus on the Fact First! So you … • use an indirect, non-threatening approach • show reasoning • give it in writing • provide explanation/rationale • allow them to think, inquire, check • compliment them on thoroughness • let them assess/be involved in process • use tact to gain clarification/assistance • allow time to find “correct” answer • tell them the “why” and “how” Steadiness Styles… • think logically • seek data • need to know the process • use caution • want notice of their accuracy • gravitate toward quality control • avoid conflict • need to be right • like to contemplate • do not like aggressive approaches

  30. Summary • What is Communication? • Barriers to communication • Communication filters • Listening vs Hearing • Communication Styles • Communicating with DiSC Styles

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