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Relationships and the Left Kayte Lawton 25 th June 2014. Outline. The value of relationships – and the role of the state The problem for the Left Why the Left struggles – commitment and responsibility Political arguments and policy priorities. Relationships.
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Relationships and the Left Kayte Lawton 25th June 2014
Outline • The value of relationships – and the role of the state • The problem for the Left • Why the Left struggles – commitment and responsibility • Political arguments and policy priorities
Relationships • Most of us still aspire to marriage / stable relationship • Relationships are private and personal • But we expect family, friends, wider society and the state to back us
The problem for the Left • The Left has typically backed reforms that are good for families • Major investments in families under the last Labour government (childcare, tax credits, maternity leave, children’s centres) • But still struggles to articulate support for relationships and family life
Commitment • Unease about talking up commitment (moralising, interfering in private lives, implied criticism of people not in a relationship, double standards) • So we remain ‘neutral’ on family structure • But can be at odds with how people want to live their lives • Back commitment without telling people how to live their lives or looking down on those not in a relationship
Responsibility • Parents raise children not the state • But statist tendencies of the Left can overlook this • Things often done to rather than with families • Risks overlooking the capacities and strengths within families • Goes against the grain of how parents want to act, and how others see their responsibilities
Policy priorities Create the conditions in which families can thrive under their own steam – rather than a state that pretends it can fix every problem • Policy, investment and institutions rooted in parental responsibility • Unequivocal support for commitment
Investing in families • Enable parents to work rather than rely on benefits to raise incomes • Universal, affordable, good quality childcare • Incentives for dual-earning in universal credit • Enable parents to protect family time when it is most precious • More generous parental leave • Family benefits weighted towards younger children
Backing commitment • Practical support to help couples stay together or make the process of separation a little smoother • Improve access to couples counselling • Signal support for all marriages without penalising others • End marriage notice fees