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Bases of Influence. Referent Reward Coercive Legitimate/Position Expert Information Persuasive. Conflict. A disagreement between two connected persons. Conflict Axioms. Deal with conflict at the right time Absence of conflict can be harmful Excessive conflict can be harmful
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Bases of Influence • Referent • Reward • Coercive • Legitimate/Position • Expert • Information • Persuasive
Conflict • A disagreement between two connected persons
Conflict Axioms • Deal with conflict at the right time • Absence of conflict can be harmful • Excessive conflict can be harmful • Conflict can be beneficial: • Eventual solution of problem • Learn about needs/concerns of other • Help avoid/resolve future conflict • Strengthens relationships
Conflict Types • Content • Relational • Value • Ego
Negative ConflictBehaviors • Blame not taking ownership • Minimizing making light of; belittling • Redefinition changing the subject • Non-negotiation refusal to discuss subject • Manipulation using positive behavior • Gunnysacking storing& bringing up later • Silencer physical response/crying • Beltlining hitting below the belt • Avoiding physical avoidance • Force violence
Positive ConflictBehaviors • Become an active participant • Use talk rather than force • Enhance the self-esteem of the person you are arguing with • Be supportive of the other person • Focus as objectively as possible on the points of the disagreement; don’t attack the other person
Bases of Influence • Referent • Reward • Coercive • Legitimate/Position • Expert • Information • Persuasive
Conflict • A disagreement between two connected persons
Conflict Axioms • Deal with conflict at the right time • Absence of conflict can be harmful • Excessive conflict can be harmful • Conflict can be beneficial: • Eventual solution of problem • Learn about needs/concerns of other • Help avoid/resolve future conflict • Strengthens relationships
Conflict Types • Content • Relational • Value • Ego
Negative ConflictBehaviors • Blame not taking ownership • Minimizing making light of; belittling • Redefinition changing the subject • Non-negotiation refusal to discuss subject • Manipulation using positive behavior • Gunnysacking storing& bringing up later • Silencer physical response/crying • Beltlining hitting below the belt • Avoiding physical avoidance • Force violence
Positive ConflictBehaviors • Become an active participant • Use talk rather than force • Enhance the self-esteem of the person you are arguing with • Be supportive of the other person • Focus as objectively as possible on the points of the disagreement; don’t attack the other person