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SIX QUESTIONS WORTH ASKING about a her/his POV ______________________________________
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SIX QUESTIONS WORTH ASKING about a her/his POV ______________________________________ Mark Sweet PhD Disability Rights Wisconsin 608 267 0214 msweet@drwi.org disabilityrightswi.org Spring 2014
What factors affect your comfort? appearance & hygiene O language & fluency / \ attitude / \ environment beliefs; practices cognition; processing What do you wish you wouldn’t see or hear?
When you’re uncomfortable (put off)… what thoughts? ________ what sensations? ________ what emotions? ________ What happens to your intention? What happens to her/his sense of safety & well being?
The intention to be… helpful is not always experienced or understood as… help Experience is in the body; nervous system Understanding is based on learning & past events Our failure to imagine…
What Kinds of THINKING? If something interfered, …? Adjustments of MOOD? If you couldn't adjust to situations or expectations, …?
Who might have difficulty with thinking & mood adjustments? People living with intellectual disabilities brain injuries or changes neurological differences (autism) thought disorders mood disorders trauma
Behavior= Actions context is everything else stress is what puts you off balance =Coping: trying to restore balance (skillfully or not) = Assertiveness- CommunicationI want… I don’t want… I think… I feel…
______________________________ behavior communicating, coping, asserting ______________________________ What is her/his POV (point of view)?
supporter person supported ___________________________________ time /schedule activity expectations what s/he didn’t do what s/he did wrong wanting energy
supporter person supported ___________________________________ time /schedule sensations activity curiosity expectations understanding what s/he didn’t do emotions what s/he did wrong coping & history* wanting energy wanting energy Enter: Power & Control with Brain Lock
We Characterize stubborn inappropriate manipulative noncompliant has behaviors uncooperative distractible wild, out of control having behaviors is challenging has challenges • Interactions? Whose POV(point of view)?
SHIFTS IN PRACTICE From: How do we make it stop?To: What’s happening or has happenedfrom her/his POV? From: Characterizing To: Reporting from her/his POV
To Unlock Thinking: Six Questions about her/his POV What do you see or hear …? When is s/he more likely … ? If you wanted to provoke? What does s/heunderstand … activity? materials? relationships?
What is s/he probably experiencing (sensations) & feeling (emotions)? What is s/he trying to accomplish, assert or cope with? With ease of communication what would s/he say? I want… I don’t want… I think… I feel…
What is it like to be ___, to have her/his… interests & curiosities … skills & abilities … understanding ... temperament, energy … sensory sensitivities … health & wellbeing … losses, grief, coping skills & to be supported as s/he is now?
Based on her/his POV, what could you do or not do to help her/him ___ to Avoid ___ to Understand ___ to Participate ___ to Cope ___ to Assert
We have a choice Judgment Blame Criticism or Curiosity about her/his POV Choose Curiosity