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Spiritual Intimacy in Marriage. - Psalm 27:1-6 -. The # 1 Intimacy in Marriage is Spiritual Intimacy. Why Is Spiritual Intimacy Important?. EX: Hosea and Gomer (Hosea 1,4) Ephesians 5:22-33 Marriage first and foremost is a spiritual relationship ( Amos 3:3 ).
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Spiritual Intimacy in Marriage - Psalm 27:1-6 -
Why Is Spiritual Intimacy Important? • EX: Hosea and Gomer (Hosea 1,4) • Ephesians 5:22-33 • Marriage first and foremost is a spiritual relationship (Amos 3:3)
Why Is Spiritual Intimacy Important? • How close are you spiritually as a couple? • Consider the foundation of your marriage (Matt 7:24-27) • “Except the Lord build the house, they labor in vain that build it” (Psalm 127:1)
Why Spiritual IntimacyDoes Not Exist? • Self-gratification • Spouse centered vs. God centered spouse • A servant to others, not our marriage
Why Spiritual IntimacyDoes Not Exist? • Fear of Honesty and Openness • The need for prayer - Jas 5:16 • Why couples fear openness: • Shame • Sin • EX: Adam/Eve, Abraham/Sarah, Ananias/Sapphira
Why Spiritual IntimacyDoes Not Exist? • Fear of Honesty and Openness • What do you believe would happen to your marriage, if you prayed together with your spouse?
Why Spiritual IntimacyDoes Not Exist? • Fear of Honesty and Openness • Prayer provides a richness, depth, and intimacy not achieved by anything else
Why Spiritual IntimacyDoes Not Exist? • Fear of Honesty and Openness • Openness removes pride, ego, isolation, deception • Openness creates attachment, intimacy, ONENESS, emotional & physical connection
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Building a strong marriage by working to be closer to God and your mate! God God Wife Husband
Building a strong marriage by working to be closer to God and your mate! God God Wife Husband
Building a strong marriage by working to be closer to God and your mate! “with purpose of heart, they would cleave unto the Lord (Acts 11:23) God God Wife Husband
ONENESS in marriage is…Aquila and Priscilla(Acts 18:1-3; 18,26;Romans 16:3,4)
Spiritual intimacy is a heart’s desire to be close to God • Fall in love with God so you can fall in love with your spouse
How to be Spiritually Intimate?? Find the Time – determine it Find the Place Find the Subject – what to read, study – devotional Once you begin, do not stop.......
How to be Spiritually Intimate?? Devotional time of the week Greatest joy of the week Greatest struggle of the week Affirmation to your mate A wish or hope A Bible verse posted Prayer Demonstrate a “fruit of the Spirit”
Building a strong marriage by working to be closer to God and your mate! God God Wife Husband