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Marriage,

Marriage,. Divorce,. & Remarriage. D. I. V. O. R. C. E. Biblical Examinations Of An. Emotional & Controversial Subject. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God A relationship regulated by God Wives must submit to their husbands Eph 5:22 Because it is “as unto the Lord”

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Marriage,

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  1. Marriage, Divorce, & Remarriage D I V O R C E Biblical Examinations Of An Emotional & Controversial Subject

  2. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • Wives must submit to their husbands Eph 5:22 • Because it is “as unto the Lord” • Because it “is fitting in the Lord” Col 3:18 • Her husband is her head…just as Christ is Head of the church Eph 5:23 • As the church is subject, so is the wife Eph 5:24

  3. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • The wife’s example is the church Eph 5:24 • The church is subject to Christ “in everything”… so should the wife be to her husband • This is not a statement of her inferiority • It is a Divine declaration re: her role as man’s “suitable helper”

  4. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • Some believe, teach the woman’s submission is attributable to Eve’s actions Gen 3:16 • If woman was made submissive to her husband because of the first sin, what does that imply before Adam & Eve committed sin? • They would have been marital equals or peers

  5. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • Husband & Wife enjoying equal roles prior to sin is not the teaching of the Scripture • Submission is based upon creation, not sin 1 Tim 2:12-15 1 Cor 11:3, 8-10 • God was reminding the woman of her place when He spoke what is recorded in Gen 3:16

  6. “To seize & hold in possession by force without right or wrongfully” - Webster MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • Obviously, this is not “politically correct” • We’re concerned with eternal truth, not politics • Man’s authority over woman is God-given • Woman’s authority is “usurped” 1 Tim 2:12

  7. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • The love required between husband & wife is defined in 1 Cor 13:1-8a • Actions toward another without love are meaningless vv. 1-3 • Marital love is always thoughtful toward the other vv. 4-6

  8. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • The love required between husband & wife is defined in 1 Cor 13:1-8a • Marital love bears up under injustice…believes the best in the other…hopes for the best…endures when the best doesn’t happen v. 7 • Marital love never quits v. 8

  9. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • N.T. Christians are fully aware of the importance of civil authority & its role in daily living Mt 22:15-22 1 Pet 2:17 Rom 13:1-6 • There may exist a difference between Divine authority & human authority on an issue • In such cases, God’s will rules Acts 4:19 5:29

  10. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • This is equally true re: the marriage relationship • Even though marriage is a “Divinely regulated” relationship, human civil regulations are involved • Cultural requirements dictating when & how one is married must also be considered • Requirements that must be respected Rom 13:2, 5

  11. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • Throughout the centuries, different customs have been observed that constitute when 2 people are considered “married” • Isaac and Rebekah Gen 24:67 • “Jumping the broom” • Modern-day civil customs & social ceremonies

  12. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • A relationship regulated by God • When these “customs” are observed, the man & woman are considered “married” • This union may or may not have Divine approval... however, it is a “marriage” Mt 19:9 Mk 10:11-12 • The “reverse argument” re: divorce is equally true • An important point for our next discussion

  13. MARRIAGE – Love Designed By God • One final question…Who May Marry? • Those who have never been married before Gen 2:18 1 Cor 7:8-9, 25-28, 36 • Those whose mates have died Rom 7:2-3 1 Cor 7:8-9, 39 • Those whose mates were unfaithful and were put away (divorced)Mt 19:9

  14. DIVORCE – A Testament To Failure • Man has habitually “set aside the commands of God for the sake of his traditions” Mt 15:6 • Marriage is also affected by this mindset • Marital conduct is outlined in the word of God • Yet, husbands & wives show discontent with this standard…behave in ways of their own choosing • Divorce often is the end result

  15. DIVORCE – A Testament To Failure • It is a “declaration of marital failure” • Even if sought & obtained for the reason the Lord sanctions, 1 or both spouses still failed • Biblical texts can be found in both the O.T. & N.T. that address the subject of divorce • We’ll begin with selected O.T. texts

  16. DIVORCE – A Testament To Failure Deut 24:1-4 • Even before the Israelites entered their promised home, they were already divorcing contrary to God’s original marriage law found in Gen 2 • God was attempting to regulate this behavior • It is not to be understood as Divine approval for “divorce for any cause” cp. 1 Jn 2:1-2

  17. DIVORCE – A Testament To Failure Deut 24:1-4 • The 2 textual clauses must be seen, understood • The “conditional” clause (protasis) is vv. 1-3[This is the “if” portion of the proposition] • The “conclusion” clause (apodosis) is v. 4 [This is the “then” portion of the proposition] • This brings about the proper understanding…it also highlights the Jews’ error in Mt 19 & Mk 10

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