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Interpersonal Communication. John A. Cagle. Interpersonal Communication. Interpersonal communication deals with relationships between people, usually in face-to-face private settings. Interpersonal communication is the primary way relationships are created, maintained, and changed.
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Interpersonal Communication John A. Cagle
Interpersonal Communication • Interpersonal communication deals with relationships between people, usually in face-to-face private settings. • Interpersonal communication is the primary way relationships are created, maintained, and changed.
Rosenfield, Hayes, & Frentz (1976): Relationships: Defining Main Characteristics • FORMALITY: the amount of distance between the people defines the type of relationship, from formal to intimate. • ACCESSIBILITY: the openness, willingness to exchange information (self-disclosure). • RECIPROCITY: certain behaviors are called for in the relationship and others are prohibited; each person has expectations which must be fulfilled. • COMMITMENT: the degree to which each person is uniquely a part of the relationship; the interchangeableness of the people. • SPONTANEITY: the freedom or lack of freedom to engage in spontaneous behaviors, free of role expectations of the other.
Watzlawick, Beavin, and Jackson (1967) Their theory is based on a systems paradigm. Their book, Pragmatics of Human Communication, posited five axioms of communication.
Watzlawick, Beavin, and Jackson (1967)Five Axioms of Communication • 1. One cannot not communicate. • 2. Every communication has a content and a relationship aspect such that the latter defines the former and is therefore metacommunication. • 3. Every communication sequence is defined by the way the interactants punctuate communication events. • 4. Interpersonal contacts are digital and analogic. • 5. Communication relationships are either symmetrical or complementary.
Matching of Perspectives and Metaperspectives on content and relationship
If conflict occurs, it could be because: • They agree and mutually understand each other on the content issue, but they still have a relationship conflict. • They agree on the content issue, but one or both misunderstand the other’s position. • They disagree on the content issue and understand that they do. • They disagree on the content issue and, on top of that, one or both misunderstands the other’s position. • They agree and understand each other on relationship definition, but have a content conflict. • They are in relational agreement but misunderstand that they are. • They disagree relationally (e.g., both wish to control the relationship) and understand that they do. • They disagree relationally and, in addition, misperceive the other’s relational stance.
Timothy Leary (1957): Interpersonal Circumplex • Definitions of relationship pull behaviors from each person. • Behaviors on the Love-Hate axis tend to pull the same behavior. • Behaviors on the Dominance-Submission axis tend to pull opposite behaviors.