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Think Win-Win. Habit 4 of seven habits for highly effective teens By: Devin Berry, Kailya Jackson ,and Niyin Smith. Think Win-Lose. Full of pride Using other people emotionally or physically, for your own selfish purposes Trying to get ahead at the expense of others
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Think Win-Win Habit 4 of seven habits for highly effective teens By: Devin Berry, Kailya Jackson ,and Niyin Smith
Think Win-Lose • Full of pride • Using other people emotionally or physically, for your own selfish purposes • Trying to get ahead at the expense of others • Spreading rumors about someone else (as if putting someone else down builds you up) • Always insisting on getting your way without concerning yourself with feelings of others • Becoming jealous and envious when something good happens to someone close to you
Think LOSE-WIN • Find yourself setting low expectations and compromising your standards again and again • Giving into peer pressure • Being a doormat basically saying, “Have your way with me. Wipe your feet on me. Everyone else does.” • You are always Mr. Nice Guy and can’t stand up for yourself.
THINK Lose-lose • If I'm going down you are going down with me • Revenge Examples of a lose-lose situation: “I don’t care as long as he fails” “If I can’t have Marcus then she can’t either” War is also an example of a lose-lose situation, the whole concept of whoever kills the most people wins the war doesn’t really sound like anybody's winning to me
Think Win-Win • Everyone can win • It’s nice and tough all at once • I care about other people and want them to succeed • And I wish to succeed as well • There is plenty of success to go around
Follow these baby steps; they might push you towards thinking win-win • Pinpoint the areas you most struggle with • Show sportsmanship in the sports that you play; try to compliment the other team • If someone owes you something don’t be afraid to speak up and ask for it nicely • Play a card or board game without thinking of winning or losing; do it just for the fun of it • If someone close to you succeeds, be happy for them instead of showing jealousy toward them • Think of a person who you think is a win-win model • If you are in a lose-win relationship with a member of the opposite sex go for the no deal and get out of that relationship
CrEdits Niyin Smith, Kailya Jackson-technology Devin Berry- director