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Active Listening and Speaker Etiquette. Career Education. Listening. If you ask a one word description of listening, some would say hearing; however, hearing is physical. Listening is following and understanding the sound---it is hearing with a purpose
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Active Listeningand Speaker Etiquette Career Education
Listening • If you ask a one word description of listening, some would say hearing; however, hearing is physical. • Listening is following and understanding the sound---it is hearing with a purpose • Extension of Golden Rule: think about how you would want to be listened to • Takes some practice to develop the skill of active listening
“Triple a” Listening • Maintain a Constructive Attitude • A positive attitude paves the way for open mindedness • Strive to Pay Attention • Attentive listening means the ideas and information being presented are being processed • Capacity for Adjustment • Be able to adjust for the content of the presentation • Adjust feelings or views toward a subject
Reasons Good Listening Skills are needed • Better understand assignments and what is expected of you • Resolve problems and answer questions • Build rapport with co-workers, bosses, and clients • Work better in a team-based environment • Show support to others • Find underlying meaning in what others say
Active Listening • Face the speaker • Sit up straight or lean forward slightly • Show attentiveness with your body through posture, hands, feet, eyes, face • Maintain eye contact • Focus, but do not gaze or stare at the communicator • Take notes, but stay focused and involved • If your eyes do not wander, perhaps your mind won’t
Active Listening • Minimize distractions • Put away all other items including your phone • Do not log onto the computer • Sit quietly without fidgeting • Keep an open mind • Wait until the speaker is finished before deciding if you agree or disagree • Do not interrupt the speaker • Wait until the speaker is finished before asking questions
Active Listening • Respond to speaker’s questions • Answer appropriately • Get involved in the presentation • Ask Questions • Write down questions to ask • Ask questions at end of presentation, do not interrupt
Speaker Etiquette • Stay in your seat • Unless directed otherwise by speaker or teacher • No restroom break, throwing trash away, etc. • Shortest Path to exit • If you must leave for a previously approved reason, use shortest path to exit that minimizes disruption • Do not criticize the Speaker • Good listeners look for the ideas being presented, not for things to criticize