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(Because she’s the worst). What we can learn about public speaking from Kristen Stewart. 1. Don’t act like whoever you’re speaking with is wasting your time. Essential in anything, particularly interviews In this case, YOU are the time-waster Be gracious No one wants to listen to
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(Because she’s the worst) What we can learn about public speaking from Kristen Stewart
1. Don’t act like whoever you’re speaking with is wasting your time • Essential in anything, • particularly interviews • In this case, YOU are the time-waster • Be gracious • No one wants to listen to someone who acts like they have better places to be
2. Don’t excessively touch your face or hair • Even when nervous, keep your hands away from your face • Classic K-Stew – looks bad
3. Don’t bite your lip • You don’t look cute • Nervous or self-conscious • You look like a kid telling your mom you got in trouble at school.
4. Avoid interjections that mean nothing • “Uh”, “um”, “like” • Can be hard due to casual conversation • To avoid, speak at a slower pace • Uh...
5. Don’t trail off at the end of sentences • Hard to avoid in certain situations • i.e. interviews, any time you’re unsure • Finish sentences firmly • If you’re not confident in what you say, no one else will be either
6. Don’t turn declarative sentences into questions. • Also makes you look unsure of what you’re saying • If you have something to say, say it • Like, I won an award?
7. Look at the person/people you are speaking to • Look people in the eye • Big group – look at the back of the wall over their heads • Don’t look down or slouch
8. Avoid long pauses • Be confident • Don’t babble, but continue speaking
9. Don’t curse or make jokes that make people feel awkward • You might think it will make your audience feel comfortable, but you are wrong • Curse words are more jarring in speeches than in casual conversation
10. Don’t end speeches/answers/presentations with… • “So…there you go.” • “So…yeah.” • “Kay, bye.” • Actual quotes from some of Kristen Stewart’s speeches • Just don’t.
Basically… • …don’t do anything in this video and you should be just fine. • Kristen Stewart: Teaches You How to Speak More Good
Information adapted from • http://www.thegrindstone.com/2012/06/04/career-management/dos-and-donts-strategy/10-things-we-can-learn-about-public-speaking-from-kristen-stewart-597/